1, man

Generally speaking, it is the man, because the flower girl needs to marry the bride with the groom, so the flower girl is basically the child of his relatives and friends found by the man, neither too old nor too young.

2. Women

If the man doesn't have suitable children, it doesn't matter if the woman goes out here, because the wedding will use small flower children to scatter flowers, give wedding dresses or send rings to bless, so the woman's school-age children can also do it.

3. Both sides are out

Of course, if both parties feel that they should go out, they can also choose a flower girl. Men and women mainly look at the right children around them, and there will be no special requirements. Preferably a man and a woman, symbolizing twins, or a pair of boys or girls.

Extended data:

1. Generally, flower girl has a blessing, that is, it is hoped that the newlyweds can also give birth to lovely love crystals after marriage. Therefore, in many places, the flower girl will choose a man and a woman, wishing the newlyweds can kill two birds with one stone and have two children.

2. However, flower girl itself is actually an ornament at the wedding, so whether it's a man and a woman, or two girls, or two boys, it's ok. There are no hard and fast rules in this respect, which are decided by both husband and wife.

3. Moreover, in many cases, children who are close to each other may not have suitable boys and girls to be flower girl, so in many cases, both men and women can find the right one.