Marriage is a guarantee given to each other by two people who love each other. With that piece of paper, it means that the relationship between these two people has been protected by law, which is the most stable form to ensure their love. In the form of marriage, all other so-called "love" is immoral.
Women can have children without marriage, and stable family relationships seem to be threatened. Even recently, I saw on the Internet that some women with economic foundation directly chose their own children, and the children seemed to be well taken care of. We don't want any marriage in the future. Anyway, children can have children if they want to, and it doesn't matter whether they are legal or not.
From this point of view, it seems that there is no need to get married, but a love relationship is enough. When two people get along, they will be together. If they don't get along well, they will separate. If they have children, they will be born, and they can be raised together or alone. In the past, I had to apply for a birth permit, a birth permit and so on, but now they have all been solved. The marriage certificate has really become a dead letter, and it doesn't matter whether it is there or not.
In fact, the misunderstanding of this problem lies in the understanding of marriage. Marriage is not simply for legal childbirth, its essence lies in the recognition of each other's long-term stable relationship, which is the recognition at the legal level.
We have seen that in many countries in Europe and America, policies related to fertility have always been very loose. Some people even fall in love all their lives and have several children. Neither of them has ever been married. It can be seen that in these countries, marriage has little to do with having children. However, Europeans and Americans are still willing to marry each other because they think marriage is a very sacred thing. If two people who love each other want to regard each other as their lifelong partners, then there must be such a form of identifying the relationship.
This form has nothing to do with whether two people are willing to have children with each other, but simply live with each other and give each other peace of mind.
Conversely, those Dink families who have no children are also very happy. Whether to have children is only a choice in marriage, not a necessary condition.
Perhaps influenced by traditional ideas, most people in China think that giving birth within marriage is a necessary condition, so they are so sensitive to whether children born out of wedlock are legal or not. Actually, I don't think it's necessary If you choose to get married just to have a baby, then your marriage is very sad.
Marriage is the recognition of the greatest sincerity between husband and wife in civilized society, and it is the highest form of recognizing each other as their only partner in this life.