1. Whether to hold a banquet or not is a personal choice. Someone must get married without a banquet. But now more and more young people have this idea, which does not mean that this idea is wrong. Everyone has his own choice. If both husband and wife think it's ok, parents can naturally skip the banquet.

There is no explicit stipulation that marriage must be a banquet, so marriage can be a matter for two people and does not interfere with others' lives. If you feel happy, send a circle of friends and tell everyone that you are married.

Will you regret getting married without a banquet?

1, I will regret it: some people think that they don't have a banquet when they get married, and they think that they can't get back the gift money in these years. This idea is understandable, of course, but in some places, the burial ceremony itself is relatively small and doesn't make much sense. And some places still have to be said by region.

2. I will regret it: Another reason for regret is that for many people, I still don't quite understand that it is inevitable that people will point fingers when they get married and don't hold a banquet. If I pay more attention to those words, I may regret why I didn't hold a banquet.

3. No regrets: The wedding banquet is a huge expense, and there are other more expenses for newly married couples to form a new small family after marriage, so if they don't hold a wedding banquet, the money saved can be used in other places.

4. no regrets: nowadays, young people are busy with work, so it is difficult to take time out to prepare and hold weddings. Similarly, getting married will take a lot of time and energy, so simply getting a certificate and having dinner with everyone may be a better choice for them.

At this age, it's quite tiring to talk about food extravagance and waste. Others lose money day by day, and you pay it back day by day. Some people deliberately take advantage of you with gifts. You feel sick. Put an ordinary table for fear of losing face. Pay attention to ostentation and extravagance Losing money is certain. Others don't necessarily say hello when they eat it. It takes time and energy. What's the point of involving seven aunts and a bunch of strange relatives whom I haven't seen for years? Will they make you both happy? No, some relatives will join in the fun and watch jokes, and they will be happy if you bow your head and do something without self-esteem at the wedding. Besides, it's nothing more than a comparison to see who your daughter-in-law married. His children's daughter-in-law is better than you, so he is naturally happy. If you are not good, you should be prepared to suffer indignities. When relatives and friends don't get along well with your daughter-in-law, they get angry, deliberately break your things, disturb your wedding by drinking, embarrass you in the bridal chamber and make a fool of yourself. All the good things have been ruined by your carelessness. It is common for brides to be tortured and cry, and there are not a few who run away, which is not festive at all. Is this the sense of ceremony you want? Is this still the unforgettable wedding you want? Weddings show naked humanity.