Parents know that children really have no equal status in their hearts. As the saying goes, children are the pride of parents. They lived together since childhood, watched them grow up little by little, and then suddenly got married and stopped living with themselves. How to make parents not sad?
Parents' love for their children is the truest. They raised their children one after another. During this period, how much did parents pay? Parents can say that they have given everything to their children, especially their love. This kind of affection, which has been integrated for a long time, is always giving up. Does the daughter live around or marry far away?
Of course, this concept is also deeply influenced by traditional concepts. In our traditional consciousness, our daughter has been married and has since become a foreigner. The distance between her and her parents seems to have suddenly become far away. This idea is harmful to both her daughter and her parents.
Actually, you can think about it. After entering a new era, this situation completely disappeared. On the one hand, contact and transportation are more convenient, and everyone can get together at any time. Even many girls live with their parents after marriage. Not only is it not far away, but it seems to be getting closer, because parents have to take care of their children for their daughters. Hehe, this family bond has become stronger.
In addition, the concept has also changed. In traditional ideas, especially in ancient times, once a girl married, she became a foreigner and rarely kept in touch with her parents. Coupled with the inconvenient transportation, some girls can't see their parents for years or even ten years after marriage. This situation has caused more parents to be reluctant to marry their daughters. It's completely different now.
Affection is between father and daughter, especially between mother and daughter. No matter when you come, you will be firmly tied together. As the saying goes, parents always worry about their children, whether they go out or get married, whether they are old or young.
On the wedding day, both parents are reluctant to marry their daughter. There are more concerns here. Looking at her grown-up little daughter, she has to face a new life, enter a new family and enter a new environment. Can she adapt? Will her husband's family be kind to her? Will she be satisfied with her new life? All kinds of worries are the voices of parents.
Anyway, my daughter will marry when she grows up, and now she has entered a new era. Even if a girl gets married, she will be bored with her parents all day. Therefore, I hope parents can look at this problem from a new perspective, reduce unnecessary sadness and make their daughters' lives full of more happiness.