If you don't know about the leftover men and women, you can't help worrying about them: can you still find someone over 35? I'm not young anymore. Is it easy to find someone? Now she is an elderly woman. Will you have children? ……

My friends Juanzi and Yan Yan are such two "older" women. When others chat with them, they can't help worrying about her marriage. They took great pains from the beginning and became "happy-go-lucky"!

If you want to talk about marriage, I'll talk to you about marriage. They find that the older they get, the less they want to get married! As for why, let's listen to their own ideas.

Juanzi: "I think it's fine now. I have no desire and yearning for marriage in my bones! "

Who said that women must marry? If you look at the unmarried ratio in Nordic countries, you will be shocked: their unmarried ratio is generally above 40%, and it is not mainstream to not get married, at least in those places, which is unreasonable.

In the dead of night, I also wonder, why can I be content not to get married? After many inquiries, I came to a conclusion: there is no desire and yearning for marriage in my bones, and I have never thought about getting married.

I think I'm in a good state now. The older I get, the less I want to get married, and the less I want to be bound by marriage. It's good to live alone.

Yan Yan: "I didn't get married because I was afraid of divorce, but now I'm used to this lifestyle."

Since I started my master's degree, my family has been urging me to get married quickly, but unconsciously, I have passed the threshold of 35 years old and still don't want to get married in my senior year.

I didn't want to get married when I was young because I was afraid of divorce. My parents' divorce, my cousin's divorce and my sister-in-law's divorce, and the divorce of two girlfriends all planted a seed of fear of marriage in my heart.

Perhaps it is this shadow of divorce that keeps me away from marriage. It's okay to fall in love. When it comes to marriage, there is an inexplicable resistance at work.

Now I'm used to this lifestyle. I go to work from Monday to Friday, run around the world with my girlfriends on weekends, do what I like, and don't look at other people's faces, let alone the so-called mother-in-law troubles. This is very comfortable.

The older you get, the more comfortable you feel and the less you want to accept the bondage of marriage. This is really good.

To sum up:

After 70, I tried to chat with my nephew after 00, only to find that no matter what I said, he wouldn't listen, and the answer I got was always "I don't know", "Well, you are great" and "not bad".

Looking back on the topic of older women, it is easy to find that everyone has different ideas. Don't try to cover up other people's ideas with your own ideas. In this way, the older the leftover women get, the more comfortable they don't want to get married. Besides, what they said should be true.

Brain hole topic: If your daughter doesn't want to get married, will you support it?

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