There is no doubt that welcoming the new year's wedding is a major event in the family. Everyone is excited and happy, but some old people will say that pregnant people can't attend the wedding. Many people may think this is superstition, but there is a reason.
After receiving the invitation after pregnancy, her mother-in-law refused to let her go, so she could only give up her cousin's careless character. Even if she is pregnant, she walks around with a big belly every day, just like people who have nothing to worry about, so her cousin's family is not worried.
A few days ago, my cousin received a notice from her best friend that she was going to hold a wedding and clamored to attend, but her mother-in-law was not happy.
My cousin's mother-in-law thought it was not good to go to the wedding with pregnancy, so she prevented her from attending, but her cousin thought her mother-in-law's idea was superstitious and could not be trusted. But in the end, in order to take care of the old man's idea, my cousin had no choice but to compromise and promised not to participate.
After that, my cousin had to apologize to her best friend and said that she could not attend the wedding. I thought her best friend would be a little emotional, but instead of being angry, my cousin's best friend seemed relieved and said she didn't mind.
Later, my cousin learned that her best friend also heard from her elders that pregnant women could not come to the wedding, which would easily affect their health, but her best friend still had to inform her cousin because of her face, but mainly she didn't want any danger to happen.
Cousin felt very puzzled. What happened to pregnant people attending the wedding?
In fact, the elderly at home don't want pregnant people to join in the fun at the wedding. This is not superstition. It's not superstition that old people don't want pregnant women to attend the wedding. There are these reasons.
The food at the wedding banquet made pregnant women "unable to eat"
Nowadays, most couples hold weddings in some hotels or restaurants, which is very convenient for both couples and guests.
Most of the dishes at wedding banquets arranged by hotels or restaurants are oil, and sometimes there is no way to guarantee the safety and hygiene of oil, which leads to food poisoning in wedding banquets in recent years.
If pregnant women with children eat these greasy dishes at the wedding reception, it is likely to have a bad influence on the development of the fetus. Once pregnant women eat them at the wedding reception, not only the pregnant women and the fetus will suffer, but also the newlyweds who hold the wedding will be affected, which will affect their wedding mood.
In this way, the relationship between husband and wife and pregnant women may also be affected.
The wedding is too lively for pregnant women to "eat"
Weddings are usually about excitement and happiness. Friends and relatives get together, and it's fun, and it may even make a wedding. Therefore, weddings are often very noisy and crowded. It is easy to collide with pregnant women at this time.
If you accidentally get hit, it's no small matter to have a few fights. If a pregnant woman gets hit and falls, it's a big deal.
In addition, the noise at the wedding is often very noisy, which is not good for the development of the fetus. It is best for pregnant women to stay away from such "stimulation".
Weddings filled with drinks and cigarettes make pregnant women "unable to eat"
Alcohol and cigarettes, the two most harmful things to pregnant women, are essential at weddings and wedding banquets.
The smell of tobacco and alcohol at the wedding banquet may sometimes make pregnant women feel sick and uncomfortable, and at the wedding, pregnant women can easily become "victims" of second-hand smoke.
The concept of elders makes pregnant women "unable to eat"
In some places, there has always been a custom that pregnant women can't attend weddings. Many times, the elderly attach importance to this custom. If pregnant women go to the wedding regardless, it is easy to cause some contradictions that make pregnant women feel uncomfortable, and it is easy for the elderly who value customs to "look at each other differently" and affect family harmony.
Of course, the wedding of newlyweds is lively, but for pregnant women, it is best not to join in the excitement of the wedding, otherwise one of the above four disadvantages of pregnant women's participation in marriage will always make you "unbearable", which has nothing to do with superstition, but with the health of pregnant women.
I am Manglietia's mother, a senior nurse and illustrator, and the mother of a 4-year-old child. If you have any questions or troubles about children's psychology, diet and daily care, you can come to me.