This custom originated in ancient times and is generally called "mothering in the province", which means going home to visit parents after marriage. It is a marriage custom of the Han nationality. That is, on the third, sixth, seventh, ninth, tenth or full moon after marriage, the son-in-law goes back to her mother's house with the bride to pay New Year greetings to her parents and relatives. This is the last ceremony of the wedding. Daughters will never forget the kindness of their parents. The son-in-law thanked her parents-in-law and newlyweds for their love and beauty. Generally, the woman hosts a banquet, and the new son-in-law is seated, accompanied by the female elders. In-laws held a banquet for their newly married husband, which was a back door banquet.
There was a custom of Huimen in the Spring and Autumn Period, which has been inherited by later generations. Because the "double door" is the double door of the newlyweds, it is called "double door", which means auspicious in pairs. The bride's old man attaches great importance to going home for three days, so the groom should make preparations in advance, leaving a happy and beautiful impression on his parents-in-law both ideologically and as a gift.
Strictly speaking, the banquet hosted by many people in the industry can't be called the back door thank-you banquet at all, but the wedding ceremony of the man's family. Visiting parents is the last chapter of traditional wedding in China. If it is really made, it will lose its true cultural connotation and significance as a "pro-welcoming" ceremony.
The return of gifts is the basic point, and the "mothering ceremony" in ancient ceremonies is the last chapter of the whole wedding. If you can't even grasp these accurately, then this is definitely not an "authentic" back door banquet to thank the ceremony.
When returning to the party, it is very important to highlight a theme of gratitude. Who should I thank? How can I thank you? There must be a special ceremony to complete, the ceremony is a rule, the musical instrument is a performance, and it must be displayed through a certain ceremony. Chiefs should thank God, the ground, (three worships), then parents (three worships), guests (three worships), children and girls for the candy ceremony.
A link should be designed in the door-to-door ceremony. Door-to-door banquet generally refers to the banquet hosted by relatives and friends when the bride returns to her family after the man's family drinks the wedding banquet. It highlights the gratitude and reluctance between the bride and her parents.
A gift from the bride to her parents; Interaction between the groom and his parents-in-law; My mother-in-law summed up several advantages of the groom and what her mother-in-law had to tell him. The groom made a promise, presented flowers to his parents and spread the expression of Weng Xu's friendship.
At the ceremony of returning home, it is necessary to design a link for the groom to give a thank-you speech and show his talents (which coincides with the praise given to officials by previous trips to the province). Finally, I remind you that some links should not be arranged as much as possible: exchanging tokens, making a glass of wine and visiting the church! Because exchanging tokens, drinking a glass of wine, and offering a gift can only be done once, which is a promise to the other party. A promise as good as a promise represents a lifetime, and there is no need to promise it again.
Champagne ceremony represents celebration, cake ceremony represents exuberant fertility, and kiss represents intimate love; It can be reflected again in Huimen ceremony, but it is no longer the core structure of the ceremony department at Huimen banquet. Huimen banquet focuses on happiness and reunion, which should be reflected in the whole ceremony. There are more ethnic and folk things to show here, such as beating gongs and drums, dancing dragons and lions, and cultural performances can be interspersed in the wedding banquet.
The layout of the banquet should be dominated by luxury and celebration, such as bright red Shaman background lighting, exquisite crystal runway, bubble chasing machine and rainbow machine, lantern decoration and flower stacking, but try to give priority to red and pink, showing a luxurious style, except for some props that are too western-style.