I am from Jieyang, too. Our custom there is to invite her relatives to the woman's house for dinner when they are engaged, and then give her relatives red envelopes, including uncles and aunts, brothers and sisters and nephews, ranging from 50 to 100 each. The money was paid by that man. It doesn't matter if you're not the first one to get married, or you don't have to ask.

A dowry of more than 8,000 yuan can be given at the time of engagement or marriage. Most people give some when they get engaged and the rest when they get married. That's what I do.

Then if there is no wine on the wedding day, please invite your uncles and brothers to have dinner together, otherwise it will be looked down upon.

Finally, three gold and wedding photos, just buy them in advance and take them in advance.

In addition, I advise you to strive for more benefits before marriage. If you don't pay for your husband or ask for three gold or something, he won't appreciate you.