The first is: region.
Generally speaking, the bride price will vary greatly from place to place. For example, in rural areas, perhaps in some deep mountains and forests or economically underdeveloped areas, some farmers hope to improve their family situation to a certain extent through bride price, so there will be requirements, which is why many people say that the more underdeveloped areas, the higher the bride price.
But then again, this statement is not absolute. Mainly depends on family and individuals. Some farmers' family conditions are actually not good, but considering their daughters' married life, they are worried about being looked down upon, and they are afraid that others will say that they are suspected of taking advantage of the fish in troubled waters. Therefore, the bride price is not high, just tens of thousands of dollars. Generally speaking, the bride price is 1 1000 yuan (meaning one in a million) and 17000 yuan (meaning Wan Li chooses a wife), and the middle is about 65,438+10,000 yuan, which is a "bride price green" of a higher level, but there is no way to say it for a higher level.
The second is: contingency
It must be said that the bride price in rural areas is full of uncertainty. For example, in some rural areas, some farmers are more face-saving and feel that bride price is indispensable. They want less, and the villagers talk behind their backs, as if there is something wrong with their daughter and she can't get married. But there are two kinds. Although some farmers ask for high bride price, they usually give back the corresponding cover, which is equivalent to taking it from the people and using it for the people.
Of course, there are good places and unsatisfactory places. Some farmers just want to come and save it for their sons to get married in the future. In this case, there is generally no less bride price, and there is generally no return of too much gift money. So I say that marriage in rural areas is full of uncertainty.
In fact, there are many discussions about bride price in rural areas, and the contradictions are also very prominent. Basically, they revolve around two points. One is whether the bride price should be given, and the other is the question of how much the bride price should be given. Most women think it is necessary, because if you don't do this, the man will not only feel your kindness, but also think you are cheap and don't know how to cherish it. Besides, you can't afford to live in the south. A man who won't give you money doesn't love you enough. Of course, the man doesn't think so, because it is a matter of two people to form a family, and we can't put all the pressure on one side.
I think the bride price can be given, but we should do what we can and ask for it according to each other's situation. Never let a lion talk. Finally, the amount of rural bride price basically ranges from 1 10,000 yuan to several hundred thousand yuan. How much do you have there?