Different people have different attitudes towards bride price. Some people think that the bride price doesn't need money, but this is an attitude that men don't care about giving more or less. Some people think that the bride price has nothing to do with it and must be more than others; Some people think that bride price is money for parents to support their old age or their younger brothers to get married, and it is not enough to give less; Some people think that bride price can improve the work pressure of married couples and can do what they can.

Regardless of the attitude towards bride price, it is an indisputable fact that the bride price market is on the rise. For example, my brother got married on 20 10, and the bride price was more than 30 thousand. When I got married in 2020, it was 88,000, and finally it was 66,000, which doubled in ten years. Even online, the amazing prices of "colorful green", "three pounds and one ring", "three pounds and three liang" and "motionless" are all popular.

The biggest bride price I have ever seen is 1.88 million. A classmate's brother married a girl from Yongcheng, Shangqiu. The girl has an elder sister and a younger brother. The girl said, "I don't need a house, but as the eldest brother in the family, the bride price is for my younger brother and sister." Married less than two years, it is stipulated to buy a house in the city, or not to buy the kind that can't work, which makes the family fidgety.

What about other bride price markets in Henan Province?

First place: Puyang City, the bride price 1.39 million, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,300 yuan;

Second place: Shangqiu City, the bride price 1.35 million, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,900 yuan;

Third place: Zhoukou City, the bride price 1.22 million, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,300 yuan;

Fourth place: Nanyang City, bride price 12. 1 10,000, and the local average monthly salary is about 4,400 yuan;

Fifth place: Xuchang, the bride price 1 1.7 million, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,400 yuan;

Sixth place: open, bride price 109000 yuan, local average monthly salary 4 100 yuan;

Seventh place: Hebi City, the bride price 106000 yuan, the local average monthly salary is about 3700 yuan;

Eighth place: Zhumadian City, the bride price 1.04 million, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,500 yuan;

Ninth place: Xinyang City, the bride price 10.3 million yuan, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,700 yuan;

Tenth place: Jiaozuo City, the bride price 1.02 million, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,200 yuan;

Eleventh place: Jiyuan, the bride price is 95,000, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,800 yuan;

Twelfth place: Xinxiang City, the bride price is 83,000, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,600 yuan;

Thirteenth place: Pingdingshan City, the bride price is 78,000 yuan, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,400 yuan;

Fourteenth place: Zhengzhou City, the bride price is 77,000, and the local average monthly salary is about 5,700 yuan;

Fifteenth place: Xuchang, the bride price is 76,000, and the local average monthly salary is about 4,000 yuan;

Sixteenth place: Sanmenxia, the bride price is 7 1 10,000, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,200 yuan;

Seventeenth place: Xinxiang City, the bride price is 66,000, and the local average monthly salary is about 3,500 yuan;

Eighteenth place: Luoyang City, the bride price is 62,000 yuan, and the local average monthly salary is about 4,600 yuan.

The above is just a bride price, nothing more than a big red envelope, money left by the mother, money for the wedding team, money for the banquet, not even money for buying a car or a house. I used to hear that it costs at least 500 thousand to get a wife. I didn't believe it at that time, only that I was too young and didn't have the friction of social development. If you get married in the county seat, including down payment, interior decoration and bride price, it will be almost 500 thousand even if you don't buy a car.

When the three mountains of "bride price, house and car" are placed in front of young people, especially rural children, they are very helpless and their hearts gradually change from collapse to indifference. Marriage belongs to these people, and I have nothing.

Talking about a goal through painstaking management has reached the point of getting married. It is decided that some women will gradually get into trouble before getting married, especially when the wedding day is approaching, while men will take the attitude of putting marriage first and minimizing major issues, and most of them choose to endure. However, every time I think of this bad idea in the future, it will inevitably become a safety hazard in my marriage life.