Getting married is a very happy thing, and everyone wants to make the wedding glamorous. Many people usually scrimp and save, but they are generous at the wedding, because this is a scene problem and cannot be too sloppy.

However, although it is a matter of appearance, we should do it according to our own economic ability. You can't give up your life's lining for a moment's face. This is absolutely unacceptable. Everything should be done according to one's ability and how many things should be done according to one's economic strength. Getting married means inviting relatives and friends to witness.

When relatives and friends go to the wedding, they usually follow the ceremony, which is not necessary. Everyone should do what he can. Relatives and friends should respect the arrangement of the host family and bless the couple. But some relatives and friends will be ignorant and judge others by their own standards.

Most of these relatives and friends have no self-restraint, and some are even nouveau riche. With a few dollars in his pocket, he can't tell the difference between southeast and northwest. When we meet such people, we should pay less attention to them, don't take their words to heart, and treat them as clowns!

02

On the wedding day of classmate Paulie, a relative also did something out of line, which made people feel very emotional!

Paulie's family and her boyfriend's family are very ordinary families, and their parents are farmers. When planning the wedding, both sides are prepared on the principle of economy and saving face, and try their best to make everything average.

Paulie's boyfriend's uncle opened a restaurant. The hotel is not particularly big, but it is no problem to hold a wedding. My uncle's family wants Paulie to set the wedding in their hotel, and Paulie and her boyfriend have the same idea. Rich water will not flow out!

As a result, the two sides hit it off, and the uncle's family gave them a 60% discount and also received a capital. We are all our own, and we should take care of each other. On the wedding day, everything went well. Relatives and friends came to the restaurant for a wedding banquet, and everyone sent gifts and blessings.

03

Paulie's cousin also brought his wife and children to the wedding and received 200 yuan as a gift. The couple had several quarrels when distributing the gift money. Wife means less than 200, and my cousin thinks 200 is enough. This kind of ordinary hotel is not a star-rated hotel, so it is worth the money.

Polly and the groom don't care. On this big day, how can they care about how much the red envelope is? They warmly welcomed my cousin's family into the house and then arranged for them to sit down. My cousin's expression is very disdainful. How could he despise this hotel?

My cousin's family used to be in poor conditions. Paulie's uncle is a hooligan. He plays mahjong all day and has no job. He does manual work for others at home during menstruation, and he doesn't earn much money all day long. My cousin graduated from junior high school. Because there was no money at home, he stopped studying, went out to work and did all kinds of hard work.

Later, my cousin met his present wife and they got married. When I got married, my cousin didn't even have a wedding room. The banquet is funded by the woman, which is very simple. After marriage, my wife has a relative who runs a factory. In order to take care of the young couple, I asked my cousin to work in their factory.

04

After my cousin went to work in a relative's factory, he rose to the top, and his relatives also gave him some shares. So my cousin's family is now a nouveau riche, bought a new house and a new car, and many things at home have been replaced by guns. Cousin has become particularly procrastinating, as if he is great and others are not as good as him.

As soon as my cousin sat down, he began to feel that it was not good enough and was too cheap. For example, my father-in-law wore a suit and tie for the first time in his life and was not used to it. My cousin thinks his suit is not a famous brand. When my son gets married, my father always dresses beautifully.

My cousin thinks that Paulie's mother-in-law doesn't wear cheongsam. Paulie's mother-in-law is a rural woman who has been dealing with farmland all her life. She really didn't wear cheongsam, so she chose other more suitable clothes. But now my cousin criticizes her sentence by sentence, which makes her very embarrassed and feels that she has lost the face of her son and daughter-in-law.

My cousin said that the wedding company invited is not good, the host is not good, and the camera is not good. Once you get married in life, you have to hire a first-class wedding company. How can you hire such a dirty person? In fact, this wedding company is also quite good, but it is nothing in my cousin's mouth.

05

When Paulie and the groom went to propose a toast and walked to my cousin's table, my cousin sighed and said, "Paulie, how can you get married in a place like this?" I am ashamed of you. I have to get a five-star hotel anyway. It's too cheap for the man's family. The man's family is too stingy ... "

The groom's face turned red and white, and all his relatives and friends listened, and the groom couldn't get angry. Polly was very upset, but she couldn't stop her cousin's mouth, so she had to take the groom to another table to propose a toast, and the young couple ignored her cousin.

My cousin is still talking there, and other guests feel that the good wedding has been disrupted by my cousin. His wife poked him with her elbow to remind him to stop, but he spoke louder because the food was not rich enough, the crabs on the table were not big enough and the wine was not good enough. ...

After the wedding, when my cousin went to work the next day, the boss found a reason to quit. It turned out that the boss also attended the party yesterday, but my cousin's family didn't see the boss. The boss was very dissatisfied when he saw my cousin's success.

06

It turned out that the boss was a friend of my father-in-law, Polly, many years ago. Later, he went to the city to do business, and he never contacted again. Now that my son is married, my father-in-law invited this old friend. My father-in-law didn't know that this old friend was a relative of cousin Paulie's family.

Paulie's cousin is really a villain. Once he succeeds, he will forget his roots. There are many such people in life. When they are down and out, they are nothing. Once one day they turn over, they will be terrible, and they will swell as if I were the first in the world.

Both Paulie's family and her husband's family are practical families. When their children get married, both families can get married well within their ability, and no one is vain. If, according to cousin Polly's theory, Polly marries her husband, then she must make a big show of everything, get the best grades and have face.

If you can live for more than one day, there will be a long stream of water. Weddings cost money, but you can't pursue vanity. Polly's cousin keeps telling people what to do, but if it's her turn, it's probably another matter. You see, he brought a gift for only 200 yuan, and I can't bear to pay more.

This kind of person is particularly double-faced. He is strict with others, lenient with himself, high with others and low with himself. When we meet this kind of person, we should learn from Polly, stay away from him quickly, waste our breath with him, and don't take what this kind of person says to heart, or we will get angry.