Actually, it doesn't matter whether it is there or not. Two people only have one life, right? Won't you get married if you don't buy your brother and sister-in-law? Many young couples just quarreled about who should buy what, and finally got married, but there was an asshole. In the end, the two families were dissatisfied and had their own opinions. Some will say, some will be relieved. After all, it is a knot in one's heart, and they can solve these small things by themselves. If you lie to each other at home, they will say that they bought it. Will they be happy? It's not that they don't buy it for others at a loss. They have never had a complete relationship with money all their lives, and marriage is not an enemy. There is no need to upset my parents about those trivial things. Maybe I won't say it, but I care. You can understand that I just got married a few days ago and was so busy with trivial things, but in exchange for my parents' joy and anger, that is the most important thing. what do you think?