On the road of our life, we may meet many friends, but few people can always accompany us. Therefore, we must learn to cherish the friends around us. When we enter the marriage hall, they will be the best witnesses of our love and give us the best wishes, and these loves are selfless. I just hope that we can live happily together. In life, some people will encounter such problems. I have a beautiful girlfriend who has been with me for more than ten years. I want to be my maid of honor when I get married. How can I refuse her? At this time, you can tell each other that you can't take time off. In fact, as a close friend, the other person can understand your situation, but not being a bridesmaid may make you regret it.

1. politely refuse, busy with official business

Being able to have a best friend really makes us feel particularly happy. Speaking of each other's marriage, we all hope to be bridesmaids. No matter whether the other person's face value is high or low, it is actually a very happy thing to be a witness to each other's beautiful love. If you really don't want to be a bridesmaid, you can choose to politely refuse at this time, saying that you have official business and can't leave. Prepare a gift for the other person, maybe the other person can understand your mind.

2. When my girlfriend gets married, I feel at ease.

Everyone knows all our emotional experiences, only our own boudoir is clear, because when we are sad, we will confide our inner thoughts to each other for the first time. When a girlfriend gets married, her heart will also become relaxed, because the other party has found her own happiness and can entrust her life to others. Watching them walk into the wedding hall is actually a very happy thing. If there is no reason why you can't get away, you must arrive at the scene to witness this intimate marriage. The above is just Bian Xiao's personal opinion, so how do you think this situation should be rejected?