Children go to primary school, parents are busy tutoring homework, and high blood pressure gets angry.
When children go to kindergarten, parents are too busy doing their homework to collapse.
Parents have to pray that their children will grow up quickly and enter junior high school. Their studies and homework can't help, and they just want to do logistics.
But when children are still in primary school, they are still in kindergarten. Because children are young and have poor self-consciousness and self-discipline, parents have to accompany their children to kindergarten and primary school.
Homework is reserved for parents, and parent-child homework has become parents' homework. If a child can make parents feel broken, then the second-child family will soon let them explode in situ.
Xiao Ju, the mother of the second child, recently tested crazily on the verge of collapse. What makes her even more embarrassed is two children, one eldest daughter is in a large class and the other is in a small class.
It's not the children who are naughty, but the troubles of two children in kindergarten class. Especially after the youngest daughter entered the park last autumn, Xiao Ju became more and more tired and weak. She wants to tell the teacher what she can't say:
I really don't want to cooperate with kindergarten teachers anymore! Why do women embarrass women? Please don't disturb your parents.
Parents with children attending kindergarten at home must know the words "home cooperation" and "home education".
At the parent-teacher meeting of freshmen, the director and the teacher will take precautions in advance, so that parents can actively cooperate with the teacher, understand and support the arrangement.
No parents dare to say "no" except picky parents. After all, they have the child. Who doesn't want their children to be good? So all kinds of parent-child activities and homework in kindergarten, parents cooperate infinitely.
Handwork, painting and posters once a week, garden activities once a month, parents' classes, large-scale performances once a semester, and outdoor play once a school year. Thanks to the children, parents have also "played" so much.
So many activities, either parents contribute or parents pay, more importantly, parents need to spend time.
When you come home from work, you should finish your child's parent-child homework no matter how tired you are, and take time off to participate in your child's parent-child activities no matter how busy you are. As long as you don't finish your homework or take part in activities, you will inevitably get a sentence:
"A child's childhood is only once. Are parents reluctant to pay time? "
Home cooperation is right, you have to be measured! When you have a family worth hundreds of millions, you must work, go to work, ask for leave, and have no rest?
Parents are angry, please calm down again, and don't be angry with the kindergarten teacher.
Because they are the last people who want to do so many things! They are innocent, too. Why do women embarrass women? They are the last people who want to embarrass their parents.
Since kindergarten teachers don't want to, how can there be so many things in kindergarten?
1. Publicity needs of kindergartens. Punch in to see the circle of friends, forward the voting activities, and ask parents if they are tired of watching it? Not to mention you, the teachers are also annoyed. However, the teachers can't meet the requirements of kindergarten leaders, and that's how it is arranged. Teachers' grades will be deducted.
The activity is euphemistically called for the development and progress of children, which is true, but is it necessary to punch in? To put it bluntly, it is not just for the publicity needs of kindergartens. Whether it is public or private, it is universal. Seriously, it is teachers, not parents, who hate this most. Because the kindergarten has increased its income, the teacher will not get an extra slice of the pie.
2. Self-packaging of kindergartens. Now many kindergartens are caught in a strange circle. Whether kindergarten teaching is good or not lies not in the course content, but in whether the activities are rich or not. Emotion means that the more activities, the better the quality of running schools and teaching in kindergartens. That's hilarious. Kindergarten curriculum has become a variety of activity planning, kindergarten teachers should stop attending classes. What about going to a wedding company for activities? No way, activity is the most explicit, simplest, most convenient and fastest self-packaging.
Some parents also buy this set, and don't blame their parents. After all, parents don't know majors, courses and preschool education. However, kindergarten directors and directors are trapped in rich activities, which is self-deception and damages the growth and progress of children and the professional development of teachers. It is a failure in all aspects.
3. The profit means of kindergartens. A graduation photo is charged 7800 yuan, and a June 1st performance is charged less 1000 yuan. Don't say that kindergarten didn't make any money. Who will believe you if you say it? You can't even have a simple look. Make money and get kickbacks, shameless. High-end international kindergartens are not too expensive and parents can afford them. For ordinary kindergartens, you only need to do two free activities in the park. What venues do you rent off campus? Are there any cost-effective amusement parks for spring outing?
The nature of education will change once it touches profit. Children's money is best earned, and parents' money is best cheated. It is more expensive for a child to go to kindergarten than for a college student. Also let parents not have a second child? Can they afford it?
Kindergarten teachers should stand on the same side as kindergarten parents. Parents need to understand the teacher's feelings, which are basically forced.
How to reduce the burden on parents and teachers can only be done from top to bottom.
Let the director put down his interests, give up publicity and do public welfare and welfare. Not to mention private parks, public parks will be difficult.
Because the amount of funds invested by public parks every year is also linked to the achievements and achievements of the parks.
Parents who can't study in public parks and can't afford private parks are also tortured by kindergarten activities. It's really not easy for them
Appropriate parent-child interaction and effective family communication are necessary, but beyond the endurance and energy limit of parents, it is their burden and pressure.
The garden should reasonably arrange parent-child activities and homework, and relevant departments should strictly supervise the development of various large-scale activities in kindergartens and crack down on profiteering through activities.
Let kindergarten activities truly respect children, parents and teachers, not for anyone's benefit, but for kindergarten publicity and the future development of leaders.
Being a Buddhist teacher in kindergarten may be scolded by kindergarten leaders, but sometimes you can't have your cake and eat it.
Just like the introduction, I don't want to force any parents, but I will treat every child with my heart.
No parents are unwilling to accompany their children. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. Teachers pay more and children are happier. Why not?
The so-called honors and benefits lost by the garden can be made up by the children's smiles and the parents' approval.
I am a little kindergarten teacher, and I am committed to helping more precious mothers!