In fact, whether or not to get married should also be considered. But since you are willing to marry her, it means that you love her and him, which means that you are willing to pay for her, so the wedding is not a problem, but whether you are willing or not. Since you love her, why don't you want to get married? Don't say that the wedding is unnecessary, he just wants to tell those relatives that I am your wife with this wedding! This is not only proof of identity, but also a sign that you love him.
So getting married or not is inevitable. what do you think? Then look at your own.
I think you can do it if you want, but you can't let the people who attend your wedding take money. My former aunt got married for the second time, and as a result, their unit was very disgusted. I didn't go, saying that three marriages cost three times. Or keep a low profile, simply set two tables with some relatives and friends, and you can wear a red cheongsam yourself. It's just that there are few people and there are no plans. That's it. Whether to hold a banquet depends on the situation. Some families can simply have a meal and announce their marriage. Others must hold a banquet, at least don't let the person who is under too much pressure to marry you or marry you lose heart.
People may have doubts. After all, another wedding, people who come to the wedding banquet will have to spend money again. It would be embarrassing to say that people can come to the wedding reception without paying, and there will be gossip or jokes behind it. After all, ordinary people are not stars. A star who has been married twice and three times can still have a grand wedding. Ordinary people live at home, treat guests or be invited. These human contacts are all major events. If the woman really doesn't want to, she invites relatives and friends to have a wedding, and the man only participates in close relatives, which makes sense.