First, make full preparations before going.
Discuss with your girlfriend to prepare gifts, mainly nutrients, common gifts, and some food, taking into account factors such as cold and warm weather, local conditions and customs. And ask your girlfriend about your parents' hobbies, and get a targeted understanding. First, prepare a few topics of interest to your future in-laws to avoid the embarrassment of silence.
Second, be generous and decent when meeting.
1, when you go, you must do a good job of intelligence, try to ensure that there are no outsiders when you go, and prevent too many people from being embarrassed and nervous.
2. At the same time, dress appropriately, be generous and steady, be clean and tidy, and be polite when entering the door. Introduce yourself first, and then send a gift, saying that I hope your aunt or uncle likes it.
3. When chatting with future parents-in-law, first of all, you should be sincere, say hello to your uncle and aunt, be able to talk, say more flattering words to make the old people happy, show your thoughtfulness to your girlfriend and filial piety to your future parents, and let your uncle and aunt trust me with your daughter. If the scene is cold and cheerless, try to talk about topics of interest to your uncles and aunts, or introduce your family to avoid silence. In addition, don't say what you should say. Don't waste words, make them think you are very capable, don't brag, be polite, and politeness is not surprising.
4. At the same time, pay attention to being diligent and always pay attention to all directions. Don't just sit there and do more housework, especially when cooking. If your aunt and uncle are busy in the kitchen, you must go in and help. Whether you want to help or not, you must do something, such as helping to wash dishes or prepare tableware. At the same time, don't boss your girlfriend around there. Remember to bring meals to your aunt and baby when eating, and try to show your thoughtfulness. Clear the table quickly after dinner and remind aunt to have a rest.
Third, leave politely.
When you leave, you must say goodbye to your uncle and aunt politely, saying that you feel at home here, feel very happy, eat well, and hope to spend more time with them.
Precautions:
1. Don't cross your legs when you speak. Although you drink less, don't smoke and speak politely.
Pay more attention to parents' physical condition, don't be too picky, don't talk too much, don't ask too many questions! Otherwise their parents will be very angry! 、
If you are not in the same place with your girlfriend, you should consider your uncle and aunt. If you want to develop there in the future, you'd better honestly say that the economic development trend of a certain place is good and you want to develop here for a few years first. We'll talk about development later. Don't tell uncle's parents directly, let his girlfriend go with you. That would make people feel selfish.
4. Parents want to see their future son-in-law. They are afraid that their daughter will lose money and not be with good people. The most important thing is to be considerate to your girlfriend, not to show any traces, and to be diligent at the same time.
5. Be polite, have a look, be measured, be caring, be filial and have confidence.
Finally, they may object to your theory, they may doubt your words, they may disapprove of your clothes, they may dislike your appearance, and they may even doubt what you brought, but you have love. Love is the key to open people's hearts, and it will certainly warm them! Just as sunlight can melt cold frozen soil! Love is also your shield against the arrow of hatred and the spear of anger! It's your amulet ~ Come on, your heart is all right!