There are a lot of data worthy of attention. In this rural area of western Hunan, there is a data about the number of school-age youth. There are more than 100 unmarried young men of school age, while the number of unmarried young women of school age is only about one third of that of men. It can be clearly seen that the marital pressure of men is greater than that of women. This also has a high degree of coincidence with the actual situation now. At present, girls are undoubtedly more popular. Many men are single, especially on university campuses. Unless this single man has a very good appearance, he is not so attractive to women. The difficulty of this rural young man in western Hunan is also manifested in his strong mobility. Generally speaking, when talking about marriage, he always finds a place for two people to talk about their feelings at any time. If a person works in one place and then moves to another place, it will have a bad influence on the emotional cultivation of two people.

Moreover, most of these young men of school age have low education level and are mostly engaged in manual labor. Faced with marriage, they are under great pressure. According to local customs, the bonus is more than 100,000 yuan, which requires a house and a car. This is the standard for men to get married in modern society. If the family doesn't support it, it is difficult for them to earn so much money at the right age. This kind of pressure is very great, and women will be relatively more tolerant. Nowadays, marriage has become a heavy burden on families. It is difficult for families without money to get married on ordinary income.

So there are a lot of data worthy of our attention. Through these data, we can find that this situation not only occurs in the rural areas of western Hunan, but also is full of these problems in the current society. High bonus, having a house and a car have become the standard for men, which has brought great pressure to men's marriage.