The object of blind date is often people's appearance, not material conditions. After meeting, two strangers must be talking about how their work is, how much money they earn, whether they have a house or a car. If you answer truthfully, you are a hard worker, and there is no success at this stage. Nine times out of ten, the results of blind date are different. Even if you think you are a potential stock, it's useless. Nobody believes you. Don't believe in love at first sight. You are the proletariat. Why should people love you? Are you poor? You don't have this ability? Love at first sight is a drama played by beautiful women and rich people. Under normal circumstances, you can't afford to play, even if you meet a lover, your brain is not good. For boys who can't keep up with material conditions, you'd better fall in love with your classmates and colleagues. In this way, if you have no hard material conditions, she won't care. Because of the people she knows, she values your character and your ability more. If you are really a potential stock, you will be appreciated by her, and she will love you as a real person. Most of these girls are people sitting on bicycles laughing and laughing. She will share joys and sorrows with you, make daily necessities with you, and work hard with you.
Of course, if you meet such a girl, you will be really nice to her.
I met a college student who studied fashion design. Working in Beijing. There is no house or car, and the house at home is very shabby. You can look at the picture below. His house is like that. ) But he married a beautiful wife. They rented a house and loved each other. Now they have a son, two years and three months old.
Classmates also asked his wife what she wanted from him, and his wife said it was only for his own good. How good is it? She remembers the date of her period accurately. Before going to work, he will put a menstrual towel in her bag. In those days, I wouldn't let her go for fear that she might catch cold. After the baby was born, he wouldn't let his wife wipe the excrement and urine, and he wouldn't let her milk the baby at night. He made it himself. He works at home, taking care of the children while working. His monthly salary is 12 thousand, and his wife is 8 thousand. The two of them have saved 6000 yuan, and now they have bought a house in our small county, and it is useless for their parents to pay a penny.
Such a person is kind to his wife, works hard and has poor conditions, and his wife is willing to live with him.
Poor material conditions of men are not the main reason for not finding a wife. Everyone wants a good life, and this kind of good life should be created by their own hands. There are many farmers in China, whose lives are ordinary and they are unable to provide rich material conditions for their children, but the sons of farmers are not all single, are they?
Zhang Xifeng of Hengshui said, "I am a country pig, and I want to arch the Chinese cabbage in the city." This is courage and ambition. That's what men should do. Our parents didn't lay a material foundation for us, we just worked hard on our own.
However, in any case, if you don't have enough material conditions to please girls, even if you become an older man, don't rush to join the blind date army, you must work hard.