Customs of Lingqiu in Datong, Shanxi
To put it bluntly, a woman waits on her mother for fear that her mother-in-law will be angry. It is often said that kindness and poverty are the root of the problem. In today's society, no matter how much money you spend, you can serve whoever is convenient, and no one has time to hire someone to serve. Isn't everyone all right? Besides, experienced people who specialize in serving the next month are much better than the mothers of both sides. Now they are all children, and when their mother disappears, someone will serve them.