No one knows who you are getting married for, some for parents' carelessness, some for friends to let them know that you are married, and some for yourself. It depends on what kind of mentality you are facing at that time. If you are happy together and think that the other person will be your lifelong support, then marriage will be the best way. You can be together aboveboard, and it will be a beautiful day for two people to form a small family. If you don't get married for yourself, then no one knows what it will be like. Maybe you get along well after marriage, but it's better when you're not married, or? If it's about money, I really don't need to think so much. Getting married is your own business, no matter what others say. Everyone has his own life. You may be poor now, but who knows what will happen in the future? Maybe you are not very beautiful now, but maybe you will live better than anyone else in the future.