"There are three kinds of unfilial, and childlessness is the greatest", "Men should be married when they are older, and women should be married when they are older" and "Raising children to prevent old age and hunger" are the unchanging beliefs of Huanggang's elders. Generally speaking, a son is afraid of not getting a wife, and a daughter is not afraid of not getting married. There is no free love in marriage, it is entirely up to parents' orders and matchmakers' words. However, both men and women are not strangers. Even with this feeling, before getting engaged, both parties will try their best to spy out each other's true colors and take a reassurance in advance. If you are really dissatisfied, you can tell your parents that sometimes you are adopted and you refuse the matchmaker. However, the door is right, and the old relatives open the door, which also adds some protection. Because of this, if you are not close, you will know each other better, which is by no means what the matchmaker can say. Therefore, the life of parents and the words of the matchmaker are not too risky for the parties. The most terrible thing is that the marriage between a child bride and a finger, like buying lottery tickets, depends entirely on luck. In case of misfortune, a flower is inserted in cow dung, or a handsome boy is accompanied by a dragon's back, only fate will prevail. Parents' consent doesn't count, but they should make a good deal between them. If the two disagree, the man is willing to hire, exchange positions and form a lifelong alliance.

The wedding day is chosen by the man. Tell the woman one year in advance that the man is going to decorate the new house and put on a banquet, and the woman is busy preparing the dowry. The amount of dowry varies from rich to poor. The most common is nothing more than two wardrobes, a cupboard, a table and a dresser, a set of bedding and a washbasin. The poor are simple, while the rich are accompanied by jewelry, cash and grange. The wedding is coming, and the bride-to-be cried to get married two days ago. Is it really reluctant to part with her parents, or is she beaming and eager to cry because of customs and rules? In the wedding procession, there are sedan chairs, small sedan chairs, gifts and a band composed of horns and gongs, which makes the wedding atmosphere strong. Decorated with lanterns, slaughtered pigs and sheep, and held a banquet to entertain guests. The banquet is open at any time, and guests from afar will leave after eating. On the return trip, the sedan chair often carries the incense table directly to class. At this time, the groom, all smiles, wearing a melon seed hat (or top hat), a robe and mandarin jacket, and new shoes and socks, politely untied the sedan chair and sedan chair Gate. Then, two middle-aged women who had given birth distributed red eggs, peanuts, osmanthus gardens and chaff fruits on behalf of the bride, and then led the bride to get off the sedan chair. After the ceremony, two big girls as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade each held a red candle as the collar, and two women continued to lead the bride into the bridal chamber. The groom followed closely, and all the interested guests rushed in. In the bridal chamber, a couple, male left and female right, sat side by side by the bed, waiting for a round of wine and a toast. This banquet has four characteristics; The first couple hasn't arrived yet, so we can't open them first. Secondly, except the groom, all people are women. Thirdly, the second course must be chicken, so that guests can "catch the chicken crotch". Fourth, soaking red dates and longan in wine is a good sign of early birth. After drinking the garden wine, the comedy of building a new house appeared. According to the custom of "three days without size". This night, regardless of age, regardless of seniority. You can make trouble, but you can't be rude enough to make people laugh How can you make trouble? In addition to the oratorio accompanied by laughter and gongs and drums, the person in charge focused on "sprinkling accounts", facing the bed and across the square table, grabbing the tea rice or frozen rice prepared on the table with his hands. Say a word and sprinkle a pinch on the bed. What you say must be "four words and eight sentences", and the content should be auspicious and appropriate. Humorous rhymes, beautiful words, appeal to both refined and popular tastes, and make people laugh. It is not simple to say that the structure is good, so we can't talk nonsense and be identical. If you don't remember more, or have eloquence, you will make a fool of yourself. Young students in particular are often teased by female guests. According to memory. A common advertising slogan is: "When you enter the bridal chamber, come to see the bride. The guests are full and beaming. Within the bridal chamber, a pair of mandarin ducks, with perfect talent and female appearance, told me in detail that they planted jade in Lantian, no longer barren, with perfect talent and female appearance, lasting forever, giving birth to early children and flourishing orchids. " Scattered in turn until late at night, and the next program is listening to the new house. However, the two newcomers are well aware. When they are excited, they will still be vigilant, and their concerned parents will also search for them, so that the good things of the young couple will become auspicious days, so people who are interested rarely get anything. On the third day, the bride dressed up to cook and washed her hands to make bridal soup. At the full moon, she returned home, accompanied by the groom, prepared a generous gift, and the relatives and friends who received the gift gave a banquet to entertain the new wife. At this stage, the wedding process is over.