Second, what does everyone pay attention to when sending off?
1. Who is the person who sent the bride? Most of the people who send the bride are unmarried, but not all of them are unmarried, because several elders are needed to help "carry the rear", and these elders are not randomly selected. It is best to invite people who are not widowed, divorced or remarried, and it is best to have close relationships and have more authoritative elders at home. ?
2. Parents don't send relatives away? People who send relatives and friends are generally close friends, not including parents. Parents generally do not participate in the process of picking up relatives, so they can only send them to the door. Newcomers should pay attention. ?
3. My sister doesn't come to see her off during her period? In many areas, there is a traditional custom of "aunt doesn't marry, aunt doesn't send", because aunt's homonym is loneliness and aunt's paranoia, which is not a good moral for newcomers, so most menstruation and uncles will not participate in seeing the bride off. In some areas, sisters are not allowed to send their relatives off, so it depends on the local customs.
4. Pregnant women don't send relatives? It is generally not recommended for pregnant women to send their families, mainly because it is unsafe. Moreover, in some areas, there is a saying that pregnant women will bump into the happiness of newly married couples. So pregnant women just need to wait for the wedding quietly, and don't make a fuss. ?
5. Does the zodiac match? It's better for people to see off their relatives to coincide with the New Year's Zodiac, which is more appropriate in the traditional sense. In some areas, people think that giving birth to Xiang Chong Jr. will bring bad luck to the newlyweds.