There is a poem in The Book of Songs that completely records this story. Of course, wasn't it then? Newly married? , but? Yaner is dizzy? ,? Faint? Pass? Get married? Hold a banquet to celebrate your wedding, and? You guys? Opposite is the abandoned wife. This story is actually very old-fashioned today. For thousands of years, such stories have been staged all the time and never stopped.
The abandoned wife married a heartbroken man when he was very poor. After marriage, their relationship is also very good. Like all ordinary couples, they are hardworking and thrifty. The husband gets up early and is greedy for the black, and the wife takes care of everything at home, never letting her husband worry about things at home. The two supported each other and finally saved a lot of savings, and the life at home gradually became better.
However, the rich home is no longer the home it used to be, and the husband is gradually picky about his wife. The food he cooked today is not delicious, and the foot washing water will be either cold or hot tomorrow. In short, the husband dislikes his wife every day, and sometimes even begins to do it.
The wife's repeated forbearance did not get the warmth of her husband, but she got a divorce. It turned out that her husband had a new lover, and on the day of her wedding, she swept her out of the house. Newcomers laugh and old people cry, which forms a strong contrast.
The abandoned wife watched her ex-husband and newlyweds hold a wedding, but no one told her the pain in her heart. She could only turn it into Chinese characters. ? Feast, new faint, like brothers? 、? Yaner is new here. Am I not a breadcrumb? 、? Feast new faint, fight poverty with me? . This is an abandoned wife, sobbing in a low voice. Is it because she just married the new couple, the heartbreaker? Blessing? .
Of course, with the passage of time, this idiom has gradually changed. People no longer pay attention to the story behind it, but just take its blessing. Yaner's wedding has become Yaner's wedding, that is, Yaner's wedding, which is the blessing of the wedding. So, why? Feast? Is it? Yan? What about replacement? There is a profound meaning in this.
We know that the relationship between swallows and humans is actually very good, and it is a rare harmonious and friendly relationship. Swallow is the closest animal to human beings except domestic animals, and this relationship is mutual. Swallows like to nest among hundreds of surnames, especially under the eaves. People also like to have swallows living at home.
This relationship does not exist between humans and other animals (except livestock), and swallows do not rely on people's homes, because swallows only rely on people's eaves or trees to build nests, and they do not need human help or food. They just like the fireworks and tranquility at home.
The common people also regard the nesting of swallows in their own homes as a very good thing, which indicates family harmony and prosperity. You should know that swallows don't live in all families. When Sisi was a child, there was a swallow's nest under her roof. Swallows live there every year, live in spring and go in autumn.
Mother often tells my brother and I not to destroy the swallow's nest. Because the people who swallow wants to live are blessed. So at that time, every spring, Sisi began to count the days waiting for the arrival of swallows, which even became an obsession. But it seems that few swallows have built nests in recent years.
The relationship between people and swallows is extremely friendly, and because swallows are beneficial birds, most of their food is pests. They only eat pests and don't eat food, so no one will not like swallows. One more thing, whether in novels or poems, swallows appear in many ways, and most of them appear in pairs, that is, in pairs, for example? There is a short book in the sleeve. Would you like to send a hundred pairs of swallows? 、? The red sun has a three-pole curtain, and two swallows are painted in the building. ? Wait a minute.
Many times, swallows are regarded as a symbol of loyalty between husband and wife. They are always in pairs. They * * * build their own houses * * * to raise the next generation, which is standard monogamy. So many times swallows represent men and women in feelings, such as Lao Yan's parting ways.
This is why Yaner's wedding will become Yaner's wedding. In fact, it is the most sincere blessing to the newlyweds, wishing them happiness forever. As for the sad story behind this idiom, perhaps it can only be learned from "National Style?" Hurricane? I understand the sadness and desolation of abandoned wives and old people in Gu Feng. Always? Don't see the old man crying, only the new man laughing? Yes
Of course, even if the story behind this idiom is so sad, it does not prevent this idiom from becoming a blessing word for later marriage. While we are indignant for those who have abandoned their wives, we still have to believe in love and wish all lovers in the world well, and never give up.