This sentence applies not only to love, but also to all aspects of our emotions in interpersonal communication.

Many times, do your best and leave it to fate; Some people, some things, forget it.

Love that can't continue, forget it!

People who die for love are stupid after all!

Every life is an unrepeatable life. Love is just an occasional splash in the long river of life. Besides, there are so many beautiful things worth pursuing.

I once read a short story about a woman abandoned by her husband. She was heartbroken and wanted to jump into the sea. After being rescued, she was still in pain. So she went to the temple and asked the monk.

The woman shed tears before she finished speaking, crying that fate was unfair to her. She lamented her husband's ruthlessness and hated her weakness, but even though she was so sad, she just couldn't get out and wanted to prove her persistence in this love by dying.

The monk sighed gently and asked the woman to tell the story before she entered this relationship. The woman was dazed, as if the softest part of her heart had been touched. She was silent for a long time before she spoke slowly.

When I am alone, I am full of expectations and fantasies about love. I have the idea of all little girls in the world, dressed exquisitely and beautifully, and have three or five intimate friends who can chat anytime and anywhere. Both? Little woman? The other side, too? Woman? On the other hand, a person has also become a shining landscape.

The woman murmured her former self, and gradually revealed a trace of joy in her sad eyes. Probably, she was surprised herself.

After hearing this, the monk nodded slightly and only said, You used to be a human being, but you are still a human being. How can you lose it? ?

The woman froze for a long time and suddenly realized. She said goodbye to the monk and went down the mountain with a smile.

Who is not in the world of mortals? Naked and carefree? I have loved and hated, and I have experienced love. In the rest of my life, I learned to be casual. Whether I love or be loved, I will never be hysterical again, and I will never regard it as the only thing in my life.

Because, loving a person and being loved by a person are born!

Unbearable affection, forget it!

Life is a gorgeous robe full of lice? . Living in a big family, if the family atmosphere is too strong, or too cold and thin, it will become unbearable.

My cousin Alin is thirty-six years old, but she hasn't been married yet. Her parents, in the hopeless situation of persuasion, fully mobilized all relatives to act as persuaders. As long as the family is together, no matter what topic we talk about or how far we go, we must return to this topic.

At first, Alin listened with a smile, and only felt this was a warm feeling for Nuo Nuo. She has also accepted the arrangement of blind date, but the first love is too beautiful to forget, not to let go, and not to secretly love anyone.

With a heavy and light attitude, Alin became an older woman in a blink of an eye. Relatives' attitude towards Alin has also changed, from initial efforts to cynicism to anxiety.

Obviously, my parents are extremely disappointed with their unmarried attitude. But I am very worried about her future. They don't say much, but this kind of anxiety and worry will always come from time to time through relatives' greeting calls.

Alin is also very upset. She can't find a lover she likes, but she is unwilling to give up her persistent pursuit of love. But family innuendo is undoubtedly a way? A spell? It's overwhelming

Therefore, Alin deliberately alienated his family and refused to go home during the holidays, preferring to travel around alone.

Everyone is an independent individual, and the love between relatives is moderate. Once you lose your sense of border, you can naturally use your family to carry out moral kidnapping.

Between relatives, it is enough for you to come and go. As for other people's family and private affairs, it's better to stay at a respectful distance from others. Otherwise, family relationships will drift away and never return to the past.

Forget what is impossible!

People always say, learn to jump up and pick peaches. Indeed, on the road of life, many people can always climb one peak after another, constantly accumulate experience and move from one success to another. Victory songs are often played and good news is often spread all the way.

Their experience seems to be in line with that sentence: Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration. ? In fact, their success should be the second half of this famous saying:

That one percent inspiration is the most important, even more important than that 99 percent sweat. ?

Something, really? Can diligence make up for it? . But some things, if you can't master the trick and understand the mystery, the harder you work, the more you run counter to it.

My best friend Xiao Jing works in the system, and he mainly writes materials on weekdays. Although boring, she has already been tempered into steel and is used to it.

But on this day, she was temporarily arranged to be engaged in reception work. The so-called ignorance is fearless, because there are established plans, we have contacted the office first, booked a conference room, ordered food, booked a room and so on. They are all implemented one by one, so let Xiao Jing follow them to the scene.

Can't delay the guests to temporarily change the itinerary, Xiao Jing had to report to the office in a hurry and let them contact quickly. After several phone calls, she was already dizzy. When I arrived at the scheduled special farmhouse for lunch, there was no waiter to bring tea and water, so Xiao Jing had to do these trivial things.

Dining has the etiquette of dining, serving tea and pouring water, and pays attention to the order according to the level and the number of guests. Xiao Jing made a mistake in an order and was immediately corrected by an old leader accompanying her, which made her even more at a loss.

After a day's reception, it is much more difficult for Xiao Jing to call directly than to write materials. Xiao Jing said, this time I finally know why I have been a leader. Dispensable? People.

Is it invalid or not? Come here? , more won't take the opportunity to express themselves, how is it possible to enter quickly? Leadership vision? And then what?

Xiao Jing said that she used to think and want to continue to make progress while she was young. But now it seems that some things, even if you work hard, are unhappy, extremely anxious and even run counter to your inner thoughts. So what is the necessity of persistence?