Do you have to be happy to get married?
1. In the ancient wedding custom, the bride would hold a round fan in her hand when she got married. The overall shape of the round fan is a circle, which means a happy reunion and a happy family. In the past, the wedding fan was also called acacia fan.
2. It can be seen from the word acacia that the bride holding a round fan is also a beautiful prayer for the couple's feelings. At the same time, there is also a saying that the bride holds a fan to get married, which has the function of ward off evil spirits and cover up shame.
Matters needing attention in wedding
1, avoid staying at home.
There is a custom of going back to your mother's house three days after marriage, but it should be noted that this time refers to the day when you have to get back to your new house before sunset. It is especially important to note that it is even worse for newlyweds to stay together, because it is customary to think that this will bring bad luck to their parents.
2. Come to honeymoon.
During the honeymoon, it is best not to drop in at will. It is considered unlucky for newlyweds to visit each other during their honeymoon. Especially if there are elderly people in the other party's home, be careful not to visit.
Pay attention to returning home after marriage
1, the couple will return home three days after their marriage. This couple should dress as seriously as they want to get married, and keep a beautiful and handsome image at the wedding. The woman will also hold a grand banquet, and the newlyweds should carefully choose their returning clothes.
2. When returning to the door, the bride usually walks in front, and when returning to the groom's house, the groom walks in front. Because Huimen is the first time for the new queen to meet her family, which is also called "taking the first trip". You can't spend the night at your father-in-law's house after you go home, but you must go back to the groom's house on the same day, because in ancient times, you can't leave the room empty for one month after the wedding, otherwise it will be ominous.