Recently, a new word-"naked marriage" has been coined. What is naked marriage? Even if they don't have a car or a house, they still have to get married, just like Pinghai and Su Chun in Dwelling House. Many people think that naked marriage is a sign of enough love, and many people think that it is a hot-headed or helpless move. How many people will have the courage to get married naked? Ask yourself, dare you? In naked wedding, people still have a strong interest in dwelling in humble abode, because it is very realistic and life-oriented. There is a clip in which Pinghai sends dried noodles to Su Chun every day to save money to buy a house. Su Chun finally can't stand it. He said that I strongly urged not to eat dried noodles, and I wanted to eat instant noodles. Pinghai smiled and the audience's heart was broken. It is inevitable that they will think of it, but they don't know those who were poor together. The economic crisis is said to have rebounded in the past two years, but wages have not risen and house prices are still rising. Many post-80s couples, still full of hormones, are willing to endure a life of no fixed abode, and will still bask in sweetness, humble abode and poverty. A while ago, a group of photos of "poor family, simple happiness" were widely circulated on the Internet. In the crowded and shabby rented house, the two have already spent their first wedding anniversary. Netizens have posted blessings, hoping that the young couple can love each other forever. Although more people didn't follow the thread, they were still moved. Love is a luxury, so is everyone. Even if you live in a villa and have a cayenne, you may not have the romantic feelings of a young couple. I have a girlfriend who left Beijing for ten years after graduation and has been living in a rental house. From Xizhimen to Chaoyang Park, to the Asian Games Village and Shifoying, every house is loaded with her love story and records her emotional experience. She always said that she believed in love, believing in love was enough happiness, and she had the urge to get married naked more than once. Eight years ago, she named her first boyfriend "black paint bench", which is the homonym of English "husband". They began to live in a one-bedroom rental house in Xizhimen, and the money was used together, regardless of each other. It was a small family with a typical brother-sister land reclamation model. Although life is sweet, I don't know when the landlord will call, so you have to pack your clothes and find another place. She still remembers the scene of the two of them sleeping on the street. The "bench" first entrusted her and some daily necessities to a female friend, and then dragged a big box to the railway station for the night. That night's separation was the longest night of their lives. Her affection for the "bench" is extraordinary, and his shadow often flashes in her articles so far. However, the belief in love and the expectation of naked marriage did not bring her a happy ending. The lack of material things did not affect them, but the intervention of other girls prevented them from getting married naked. After the incident, the "bench" begged her for mercy, but everything was irreparable. In her view, "naked marriage" is a test of women's love, while temptation is a test of men's love. Obviously, he failed the test and she had to take back her love. Therefore, naked marriage can be very happy, just like the post-80 s couple on the Internet. Girls who have been impulsive and ultimately disappointed will naturally think of the protection that the house can bring. Maybe that sentence is right. A woman is not married until she has a family. Even if love is gone, her body still has room. "Naked marriage" is just a form. It can't represent love or happiness. More like helplessness, but there is still love and happiness after naked marriage, which really deserves everyone's blessing. A. No material security is the most unacceptable thing for a woman. Women will grow old and fade sooner or later, and love never has a deadline. I think Beckham in Dwelling House, as a man, can't give seaweed happiness. This kind of man is the scum of society, even if seaweed doesn't want to be with him, he won't be happy. This kind of person will be eliminated sooner or later in such social competition, so he deserves to be cuckolded. Therefore, I say that Beckham is the most shameless, selfish and unforgivable person, because he has positioned himself wrongly, and a man without strength does not deserve beautiful seaweed. B. Naked marriage, I think it's good, although it sounds cruel and romantic. When a person is most lonely, he has nothing but empty hands, and there is another person to accompany him to the new world of tomorrow. What a romantic thing! Therefore, I think that naked marriage is the purest emotional carnival and the simplest marriage story in the materialistic era. Because the material is stripped off, all the attraction of the other party to you comes from you, not the powerful material around you. But the premise I said is that those who choose to get married naked are willing to get married for the sake of marriage, and those who have to get married naked are not included. C. I think more than 95% of women have the urge to get married naked from the beginning. The problem is that after several impulses, although gravity hit the man, he was really unreliable. Haha, so the concept gradually changed. Therefore, you have to admit that naked marriage is actually the romantic courage that 95% girls once had, and only 5% girls finally implemented it. So it can only be said that it is a simple and simple marriage story in the material age. D It is said that 60% of men are in favor of naked marriage, but most women think it is absolutely unreliable. Most men think about their own pressure. If girls don't ask for an RV and are willing to accompany them, then the youth who are stretched will live a relatively calm and happy life. Most women think about the future, not that they are selfish. After all, women's good days are 10 years earlier than men's, and considering the growth environment of future generations, naked marriage is even less optimistic. Naked Marriage Reveals Former 1- Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun Sima Xiangru were originally brilliant poor boys, because a song "Phoenix Begging for Phoenix" won Zhuo Wenjun's heart, but Zhuo Wenjun's father disagreed. They streaked, and life was bittersweet. Later, Zhuo's father sympathized with his daughter and gave them a sum of money. After marriage, Sima Xiangru entered a rising period and was called into the palace by Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty. They said goodbye for a while. Five years later, Zhuo Wenjun finally expected a letter from home, but it said "one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, one hundred, one thousand, ten thousand". Wen Jun read the letter again and again to understand her husband's meaning. There is no "billion" in the number, which means there is no "meaning" for her. In grief and indignation, Zhuo Wenjun wrote a reply with this number: "When we say goodbye, the two places miss each other, saying March and April, but when we say goodbye, it will be five or six years. The lyre has no intention to play, the eight-part essay cannot be passed down, and the nine-ring chain breaks from it. Shiliting is anxious to see. All kinds of grievances, all kinds of thoughts, all kinds of helplessness all blame Lang ... "Sima Xiangru read this poem with numbers several times in a row, and the more he watched it, the more ashamed he felt, the more sorry he felt for his wife, and finally Wen Jun received Chang 'an. 2. Naked Marriage-Liu Bang and Lv Hou thought that Liu Bang was just a street cadre with an empty purse when he was young, but his mind was not empty. Lv Hou's father is a good friend of the county magistrate. Liu bang also came to kiss up for his birthday, but because he really had no money to buy gifts, he had to report a fake gift list to get in. When the story came out, the birthday boy wanted to see which punk dared to do such a shameful thing. As a result, as soon as he saw Liu Bang, he inferred from his knowledge of faces that he was an emperor's life, so he insisted on marrying Lv Zhi, the daughter of Jin Zhiyuye, regardless of his wife's obstruction. After the poor Liu Bang got married, he went to the kang with his wife and children, and he was not at ease in public life. Although his position is very low, he has a lot of business and entertainment. It is difficult for Lv Zhi to do housework alone. When Liu Bang gradually became a tool, Lv Hou, with different identities, had a bad life these days, and was taken hostage by Xiang Yu, who was humiliated in the Chu army, forming a suspicious and vicious character in the future. However, after going through a lot of troubles, she finally returned to Liu Bang and became a queen and a woman who influenced history. 3. Unhappy Naked Marriage-Jiang Ziya and Ma Shi are two successful cases of naked marriage, and there are also many very unsuccessful naked marriage predecessors, such as Jiang Ziya and his wife Ma Shi. According to legend, Ma married 72-year-old Jiang Ziya at the age of 68 before leaving the boudoir. After marriage, Jiang Ziya and his wife's life went from bad to worse. No crops were harvested, and meat could not be sold sour. His wife often complains that Jiang Ziya is a junk snack, and it is even more disgusting to see him fishing with a hook-free fishing rod every day. It is said that I once tried to poison Jiang Ziya and remarry. Fortunately, Ziya was able to escape with the help of the divine bird. Ma couldn't stand the poor life after marriage, and once wanted to get rid of Jiang Ziya and remarry. Jiang repeatedly persuaded him to promise to have a good future, and his short-sighted wife decided that this was nonsense and abandoned it. Later, Jiang Ziya proclaimed himself, and after he got the fief, Ma came to see him again. Jiang Ziya splashed water on the ground and told the truth about the bridge launching. The horse regretted it. After Ma died, Jiang Ziya gave her a "jinx". Love is risky, and naked marriage needs to be cautious. Some people are more realistic, others are more romantic. Some people value money, status, quality of life and future security when they get married, while others disdain it. Any house or car deposit will defile the purity of love, and a marriage with conditions and purpose is not what they want. I support the belief that love is supreme, but in life, there are many problems that love cannot solve. For example, if you don't count the house in your marriage, you can only rent it-it can't be romantic enough to take heaven as your bed, can it? Of course, renting a house is no problem, but after all, the house belongs to someone else, and you can't guarantee your residence period, one year? Two years? Or five years? Fortunately, the owner has several suites, which can be rented for a long time, so that he can temporarily maintain a stable living state. Unfortunately, when the owner suddenly uses the house, you must find a new house, and everything that has been arranged must be demolished and reinstalled. If I am unlucky again, I may even move a few times a year. I am afraid that my romantic mood will be exhausted in the back and forth and the layout of the door. I once had a pair of friends who rented a house and got married. They got pregnant after a year of marriage. Unexpectedly, the owner suddenly used the house, but after eight months of pregnancy, they had to face the bad news of moving. No way, they have to start all over again with a big belly, and they have to paint, clean and decorate. Finally, after everything was done, the pregnant woman cried a lot. Marriage without a house is really like helpless guerrilla warfare, and no one knows where the next battlefield is. Another example is saving money. When you are in love, you are affectionate and natural, but marriage is completely different. There is a large amount of fixed expenses to be arranged every month, such as water, electricity, gas, telephone, internet fees, daily necessities and vinegar tea, plus rent. You can get thousands of dollars for a leisure trip, but you can't guarantee the extra monthly expenses-smoking and drinking, entertaining guests and buying clothes and shoes. All love will eventually go out and be replaced by vigorous trivial matters of life. Of course, I'm not talking about how important money and houses are. Many couples started from scratch, and after a few years, they worked together to build a stable life foundation for themselves, but the premise is that both of them have the confidence and ability to work hard, and they must have firm trust in each other and tenacious confidence in the future. Falling in love is risky, so you must be careful when choosing marriage, depending on what kind of life you will lead. Maybe some people are naturally detached, just like Ge You in "Be there or be square". A broken carriage can live happily, which is another outlook on life. In short, what kind of life you choose is up to you.