Emotional marriage can be simple, but if it involves two families, it is not so easy to handle. A few days ago, a prospective daughter-in-law posted a complaint in the fan group of "relying on her husband's family in the north", complaining that her husband's family actually set up a shed and set the table at their door for the wedding banquet, and she could not have any opinions. It is simply "animal thinking", which has sparked heated discussions.
The prospective daughter-in-law wrote that "naked marriage" can be accepted without money, but if you want to set up a shed on the roadside to set the table, you would rather not. She hasn't eaten a table runner for 20 years, and criticized that it doesn't matter if the prospective husband can't afford the wedding banquet in the restaurant. She doesn't want to dress up and put on a wedding dress and sit in a shed on the side of the road, and she doesn't want her parents and relatives to sit on the side of the road for a wedding reception.
He also said: "My husband's family said that I can't have a problem with the man's invitation. If you have the idea of this animal, just do it. I really can't agree with it and I don't want to appear. " The prospective daughter-in-law finally said that the wedding banquet is still in communication and hopes that the final engagement wedding banquet can be separated.
As soon as the post came out, it immediately attracted many positive and negative comments. Some netizens said that "there is nothing wrong with the flowing mat", "the food is delicious and cheap" and "better than a bunch of naked marriages"; Many people do not agree with this view. They think there is nothing wrong with building a shed, a table or a running water mat. They are "lively" and "all the dishes on the table are delicious". Some netizens hit the nail on the head and said, "Happiness with my husband after marriage is the key point. Don't argue with your husband's family about such a thing! 」
Marriage is a life-long event, and many people certainly hope that the wedding reception can present the perfect side to their relatives and friends. However, people who have been married must know that all kinds of details, from choosing a wedding dress, choosing a western wedding cake to a wedding venue, are not decided by the newlyweds themselves, especially the elders have different ideas and hope to have a "lively" and "decent" atmosphere. How to communicate with such friction?
Let's take a look at the wedding experience analysis of the running water table vs restaurant!
One is tired to death, and the other is expensive to death.
Many people often say that the biggest difference between a water banquet and a hotel wedding banquet is that one is refined and the other is expensive! Running water mats are mostly set in their own homes or nearby open spaces. Often, guests' demand for toilets and wedding banquets will upset their families, and sometimes even make neighbors deeply troubled by noise and lampblack.
The biggest advantage of the restaurant is that you don't have to do everything yourself. As long as couples go to the scene to deal with it, they can make preparations beforehand and afterwards. It also gives newcomers who deal with relatives and friends on the wedding day a chance to breathe after returning home.
Habit and convenience can't be balanced?
Again, the biggest controversy is often the concept of elders. Some elders will think that many customs and details can't be taken into account when holding a wedding in a restaurant. But in fact, many restaurants now have more experience in weddings than we do. Sometimes wedding entrepreneurs can also cooperate with restaurants to show the direction that newcomers and parents hope.
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Happiness doesn't need to be limited.
Finally, it should be based on the consideration of both husband and wife. After all, weddings are mainly memories of couples. Whether the wife wants to be a princess once in her life (after all, it is difficult to be a princess after marriage) or the groom wants to celebrate with friends, these memories will become one of the most intriguing topics between husband and wife, whether good or bad.