Some men look almost 30 years old, but they are still naive, even though they are old enough to get married and ready to get married. At the wedding, he may leave everything to his parents, or you may do it, just like a shopkeeper. For him, he just needs to be a groom. Such a man often doesn't grow up, and his parents may spoil him from childhood, which makes him unwilling to do anything.
Another possibility is that you two didn't have any feelings before you got married. Maybe you got married on a blind date. Boys only marry you to carry on the family line. Since they don't care about you, of course, they won't care about your wedding. I must be a shopkeeper of cutting, too.
It is also possible that some boys just don't pay attention to the sense of ceremony. For boys, these red tape seems to be annoying. But living in this real life, we are bound to be troubled by a lot of red tape. Just because you hate it doesn't mean it doesn't exist, so you need to do it. We are still secular people, and we should do secular things.
You should think about such a man. If you don't pay attention to your wedding, there will be more things after marriage. He is like a shopkeeper of cutting, and you may have a lot of hard work. If you get married and have children, he may ignore them, because he doesn't even care about his own wedding, and the children don't need to be in charge. He might say, just give it to the old man. He is a typical shopkeeper of cutting. Such a man can't take care of anything except his normal job, and may feel that he has nothing to do with himself. It is equivalent to this marriage, you have been paying, but he has been enjoying it. This imbalance will naturally lead to capsizing one day.