Filial piety, the old custom, refers to the cessation of entertainment and communication after the death of a respected relative before the expiration of his sentence to show his condolences. There is an ancient saying that filial piety takes three years and 27 months, because it takes 27 months for a mother to breastfeed her child. Modern filial piety is generally seven days, and at the same time, it is necessary to keep seven periods of burning, each period of 7 days, * * 49 days. Then burn it for one hundred days, that is, 100 days after death.

During the period of filial piety, red objects, lanterns and couplets cannot be hung at home. For example, during the Spring Festival, some relatives died, some places used yellow paper and black couplets, and some places used black-and-white couplets to tell others that you are filial, especially within 100 days after the death of your family, because these behaviors are disrespectful to the deceased.

Taboos during filial piety

1. It is forbidden to wear bright clothes: during mourning, people usually choose plain clothes, such as black or gray, to show respect for the dead. Bright colors are usually associated with celebration and joy, so they are not suitable in sad situations. In addition, people should avoid wearing too gorgeous ornaments, so as not to disturb others or touch their sensitive emotions.

2. No entertainment activities: During mourning, people usually avoid participating in or holding entertainment activities, such as weddings, parties or other celebrations. This is because these activities are associated with the atmosphere of joy and laughter, contrary to the painful mood of filial piety, and also make others feel uncomfortable.

3. It is forbidden to eat big fish and big meat: During the mourning period, people usually avoid eating too greasy dishes, especially greasy big fish and big meat. This is because foods with high fat content may make people feel tired or uncomfortable, which is not conducive to maintaining a quiet inner state. In addition, it is forbidden to eat food that is too spicy or irritating, so as not to cause discomfort to the body.

The above contents refer to Baidu Encyclopedia-Filial Piety