Only ceremony is a marriage that is not protected by law. If you find trouble with the army, the army will generally not punish you in this case, because it does not belong to playing with feelings. In fact, the two people have normal contacts, and the banquet shows that the two families also agree. And not getting a license is not a violation of discipline. If you get the certificate secretly, it is a violation of discipline. As for the problem of youth loss, only two people can negotiate, and there is no legal basis.

It's like two people falling in love-the army won't object and then break up and lose money. This is a bit ridiculous.