Human relations are reciprocal, but others will deposit the gift money with you first, and they will pay it back sooner or later, and in many cases it will only be more than less. After receiving the money, we should always pay attention to what big and small things will happen at home to these gift givers. Who are you afraid of missing? So I can't repay this debt of gratitude. It's embarrassing to meet again, as if deliberately taking advantage of others and having to go in and out. Mother-in-law recognized the money and accepted it. She will repay you in the future. She accepted, she accepted.

Besides, my in-laws are planning your wedding. It may cost too much to go back and forth! She wants to make up for these losses by holding a wedding banquet and collecting money from some relatives and friends. This is also understandable. You have an agreement with your mother-in-law Now that I have collected money, I will also bear these human accounts in the future. Therefore, she cannot. She smiled when she received the money. I will take these favors again in the future, but I want you to take the money alone. The average mother-in-law can't do this, which is unreasonable. Mother-in-law can't daughter-in-law hasn't officially entered the door, even if it is so clear! If you don't take these gifts, you don't have to give gifts to these relatives and friends, but your parents-in-law keep them, and they protect them themselves. Don't ask you for money in the future! I've met many families. When a son gets married, the gift money he receives is for his son and daughter-in-law. Their idea is that they are too old to maintain their relationship with relatives and friends. Modesty, of course. In fact, the original intention is to hand over the responsibility to the son and daughter-in-law in the future, so that they can maintain the relationship with relatives and friends in the next life!

Mother-in-law speaks first, rather than acting first, which also shows that mother-in-law is a person who knows how to communicate with others and does not make arbitrary decisions. Knowing how to communicate with others shows that she cares about others' feelings and knows how to care about others. When I meet my mother-in-law, I have to take care of my own account, my son's account, my daughter-in-law's account, and my in-laws' affairs. I also want to say a few words. Doing so will only make chickens fly and dogs jump at home, making people and animals uneasy. So I think you should happily agree, and then add, the bride's family accepts, your family accepts, and your husband accepts.