First of all, I think it is because of the conditions. At least one thing is certain, that is, the economic conditions are better now than when you got married. Because the times are progressing and the economy is developing. Compared with last year's price, has this year's price increased?

Secondly, the man's parents, that is, your parents-in-law, think that the wedding banquet is really flawed and imperfect when the eldest son gets married. Therefore, when the second son gets married, it is necessary to make up for that kind of defect and imperfection, which is analyzed from the psychological point of view. After all, there are only two sons. If you don't make it up at this time, when can you make it up? Does your in-laws have a third son? no

So, you have to put it down in your heart, put it down. The happiness of your marriage with your husband is the most important thing. A good "marriage" is far better than a good "wedding reception". What do you think?