My cousin just graduated from college this year and his job has just settled down. It's time to talk about marriage. As a brother, I naturally want to prepare a satisfactory wedding for him. However, being an uncle for the first time, I really don't know how to choose the right wedding gift.

So, what gift should I prepare for my cousin?

First, let's look at the purpose of giving gifts. In fact, whether you give gifts to relatives, friends, colleagues or leaders, there is a certain purpose, and the purpose of giving gifts determines the type and grade of gifts you choose. For example, giving gifts to relatives is generally practical, such as alcohol and tobacco; Gifts for friends can reflect their own thoughts, such as flowers, cakes, sweets, etc. Pay attention to the value of giving gifts to leaders, such as some high-grade tobacco and alcohol, tea, health care products and so on.

Secondly, the choice of gifts is different according to the object of giving gifts. If you are giving gifts to relatives or close friends, you can choose practical ones to let them feel your sincerity and your concern for them. If you are giving gifts to leaders or customers, you'd better choose more expensive items. Because such people tend to pay more attention to face, if you send some cheaper items, it may cause discomfort to the other party, thus affecting your relationship. Therefore, before giving gifts to each other, we must consider each other's personality characteristics, hobbies and economic situation.

Finally, consider the cost of the gift. As the saying goes, "You get what you give", which is a bit old-fashioned, but it does make sense. Generally speaking, the higher the price, the better the quality. Therefore, when choosing wedding gifts, try to choose those with relatively high prices, so as to ensure that you leave a good impression on each other. In addition, if the birthday present you are going to give is made by yourself, you must pay attention to the difficulty coefficient and cost of making it yourself. If the difficulty coefficient is too high, it will not only make the other party feel that you are unwilling to spend energy to complete it, but also make the other party feel that you are worthless psychologically. On the other hand, if the difficulty coefficient is too low, it will seem a bit perfunctory, and even make the other party feel that you are not attentive enough.