About a week later, I passed by my mother-in-law's house on business, so I went to see how the children were playing at grandma's house. As soon as I entered my mother-in-law's door, I froze. In front of me stood a woman, wearing a thick cotton-padded jacket, cotton trousers made by herself on her legs, a pair of cotton slippers on her feet and loose hair. When I looked carefully, it turned out to be a daughter-in-law.
Daughter-in-law said: You don't know, the heating in the house has been frozen for two days. It was so cold that I couldn't help taking out all my old thick clothes and putting them on. If you don't come today, I will call you and ask you to pick me up.
After lunch at my mother-in-law's house, I'm going back. At this time, my daughter-in-law changed back to her original dress, which was completely opposite to the dress when I saw her in the morning.
I teased: Aren't you afraid of the cold this time? Daughter-in-law said: wear whatever you want at home, and dress neatly even if it is cold when you go out.
When you leave home, you have to work and deal with strangers. You must clean yourself up, dress appropriately and face it with great strength.
Strange images in the countryside: "Going home to be a village girl and returning to the city to be a goddess, what causes them to change a lot?" This kind of situation is so common that it is not unusual in my eyes! I understand that there are many such examples around me. Apart from outsiders, I am also like this. I usually work and live in the city, go downstairs to buy a dish, go out and look in the mirror to see what's wrong. I will never wear slippers to the streets, and pay more attention to maintaining my image and appearance.
I will go back to my hometown in the country for a few days during the Spring Festival. It doesn't matter if you don't work. If we catch the autumn harvest, the summer sowing will be cleaned up in the New Year. You're flirting, dressed up and wearing high heels. I can't help my parents with farm work! So when I go back to the countryside, I will take off fashionable clothes and high heels, and then put on old clothes. If there is nothing suitable, I will use my mother's clothes and shoes to work comfortably, so that I can relax at will, put down my work, and don't have to worry about getting my clothes dirty and change them back when I get back to town. In fact, it is also out of the psychology of cherishing thrift.
On the one hand, the environment changes my mentality. I can do as the Romans do, but there are also other kannika nimtragol who don't understand the world and are despised by the villagers.
One of my sisters is like this. One year, a family of three went back to their hometown in the countryside for the New Year. She is a fashionable and beautiful yoga instructor. That year, beige was popular in this city. She is tall and elegant. Ivory down jacket, beige trousers, white Victoria Christina Hesketh, very modern modeling steps. It has attracted the attention of many rural people. Young people envy her good taste and exquisite figure. The old people are unhappy: especially her rural mother-in-law's feudal vision directly dislikes her wearing white clothes for the New Year. Not wearing red to celebrate, dressing like Dai Xiao made my mother-in-law very unhappy. Why bother? This is the unhappiness brought by not knowing the way of the world and doing as the Romans do, which adds to the difficulties and embarrasses her mother-in-law.
This strange phenomenon in the countryside mentioned by the subject does exist. "Going home as a village girl and going back to the city as a goddess" is completely different in the city and in the village. I remember watching many small videos in Tik Tok last winter. When I was in town, the girls were all beautiful. Back to my hometown in the countryside, I put on my big cotton-padded jacket one by one, just like a village girl. What makes them completely different in the city and in the countryside?
It is said that home is the warmest harbor and the most comfortable and unrestrained. Many people's homes are completely different from those outside. Outside, men wear suits and ties, and women are beautiful. They are all goddesses, and when they return to the village, they become "female nerves." I think this is not difficult to understand.
People say we have to wipe our faces with powder. When we are away from home, we not only represent individuals, but also represent the image of our family and unit. If we are always sloppy and sloppy, who will want to be with such a clean person who doesn't even want to clean up? But when I got home, it was different. After a tense day outside, it's time to relax my nerves. Take off my uncomfortable clothes and put on loose and comfortable clothes. If it is too loose, it will become a "village girl".
I think the span between the goddess and the village girl is really a bit big. Generally speaking, we go out to make eye contact, and it's nothing to dress beautifully, but we can't be too lazy and sloppy when we get home, giving others a bad feeling. If we dress neatly, others will look beautiful. Being a fairy outside and being a village girl at home is not a big contrast for our family. Women should pay more attention to their image and don't want to wear gold and silver.
Many people really can't become village girls when they return to the countryside. You see, when they work in the city, they are white-collar workers. It's nice to sit in the office beautifully every day. But when they return to their hometown in the countryside, they have to help their parents do some work at home, make a fire and cook, move things and clean up. These are all within their power. They can't dress up and hide. They turned gray as soon as they were wiped, so they had to wear rags. That's why you become a little girl when you return to the countryside, and a fairy when you return to the city.
Some people say this country is strange. Isn't there a video to prove that aunts in their forties are goddess-level beauties when they go out on dates? Isn't it worse for her to go home and take off makeup than a village girl? Can fool the young man one leng one leng!
Judging from the subject's question, the strange phenomenon in rural areas: going home as a village girl and returning to the city as a goddess. It shows that in rural areas, women are always simple and unpretentious.
I remember that day I went to the hospital in the city to see a doctor. I was in a hurry when I registered. I took the medical records and documents and left immediately. A young female voice behind her chased and shouted, Aunt, you don't have your ID card. In the village, my little aunt has almost become synonymous with me, so when I heard these three words, I habitually turned to find someone.
I saw a woman in her thirties wearing a white dress, big eyes, long eyelashes and bright white teeth smiling at me, holding my ID card in her hand. I turned my ID card upside down, said a few words of thanks, and then asked: Are you from Luoshan … Village, too?
Women's eyebrows bend: "Little aunt, I am the eldest daughter of the Liu family." After hearing what she said, I realized that it was indeed the daughter of the Liu family, but when she was in the village, she was dressed simply and casually without makeup, so she had no temperament at this time.
In the countryside, people dress comfortably. In summer, men and women in the village like to wear slippers, simple dry shirts and big shorts, and they don't wear sunscreen when they go out. Therefore, even if a woman is young, she thinks she is an aunt.
But once in the city, women in the city pay more attention to details, go out to protect them, and don't give them a chance to bask in the sun. Women's skin is fair and delicate, and with all kinds of maintenance and protection, rural women living in cities look at least ten years younger than their peers living in rural areas.
The goddess who returned to the village from the city can't continue to be a goddess. She has to help her family with farm work. It only takes a few days to change her skin color, so it makes people feel particularly corny. It is actually rustic to say that the village girl looks good.
Old people in rural areas always say that cities support people, and rustic farmers will become rustic and increase their foreign flavor when they enter the city, while those who return to the countryside from the city will lack foreign flavor when they increase their rustic flavor.
It is important to do as the Romans do, and it is also important to adapt to the environment. Whether farmers or city dwellers change their living environment, they must follow the living habits there.
The Mid-Autumn Festival is coming. My uncle's little sister came back from the city yesterday. She has stayed in this city since she graduated from college. In recent years, she has also grown from a rural girl to a fashionable girl. But in rural areas, it is not better than in cities. Even if you dress up in fashion in the city, you still have to do whatever you want when you return to the countryside. That's not true. Yesterday, my little sister came home and had a delicious meal at home. She was woken up by her mother this morning. It is said that the walnuts on the mountain are not ready yet. Let her put on clothes to collect walnuts.
My little sister is so happy, the main reason is that she can go to the mountains to play. When she got up, she was scolded by menstruation, saying that the clothes she wore were not like playing walnuts, but just like traveling. I have no choice but to put on the clothes my mother found.
Alas, clothes make the man, and horses depend on the saddle. When my little sister changed into the clothes her mother found, she was like a different person. In a flash, the appearance of the goddess naturally disappeared and was replaced by the appearance of a country girl. But the village girl's dress can't hide the delicate face of Miss Sister, which is both cute and funny. In this way, my little sister reluctantly followed her uncle and aunt to the mountains and began her work of harvesting walnuts. After noon, my uncle and aunt saw that my little sister was tired and asked her to go home and rest. This day exhausted my little sister.
Like my little sister, many girls who left the countryside became beautiful in the city, but why did they become village girls when they returned to the countryside? In fact, there is a reason for this:
There are traditional ideas in the countryside. Because they are busy farming and feeding pigs, some people who are already very handsome ignore their own dress and feel normal. But some women and girls who come back from the city will be treated differently by some village aunts and grandmothers if they come back in fashionable clothes. Therefore, Xiaomei was forced by her mother to put on the clothes of the village girl, which is conducive to grounding.
When in Rome, do as the Romans do, and talk about that family wherever you go. Many girls go home to help their parents, so they change into village clothes and dress up as village girls. The clothes sewn by my mother are not very foreign, but they fit me well. The cotton-padded jacket is very warm in winter, so I don't want to wear other clothes after staying at home for a long time.
But it's different when you enter the city. If you wear these clothes in the city, people in the city will feel different. So, you can wear it at home anyway, but it will be different in the city.
Although many rural areas are close to cities in some aspects such as life, some girls or women still dare not take this step because of the influence of traditional concepts. So there is this situation: dressing up as a country girl in the countryside and becoming a goddess in the city. And this situation will gradually get better in the future, and this phenomenon in the village will not appear again.
It's not hard to understand. The same person went back to the village and dressed up as a simple farmer. When he returns to the city, he must conform to the aesthetic point of view in the city. In the words of our countryside, this is called doing as the Romans do and doing something different. If you go back to the countryside, especially during the busy farming season, farmers go to the mountains to work every day, and everyone is too tired to care about their heads and feet. You also dress up five or six people, which gives people a feeling of being a bit out of place. So after returning to the village, it is better to wear something simple. Put on work clothes and go to the fields to help my parents break corn and pull peanuts. This kind of scene makes people feel very comfortable and comfortable.
I lived in Jinan for several years when I was young. One summer harvest time, I returned to my village from Jinan, just as everyone was busy harvesting wheat. The neighbors' brothers and sisters were all covered in mud and sweaty. Before lunch, they will run to thresh wheat. That time was not now. The harvester goes directly to the field, and after the wheat is harvested, the wheat grains come out directly. At that time, it was necessary to harvest the wheat field by hand with a sickle. After harvesting the wheat, pull it into the yard and clean it with a thresher. The farmers were exhausted and exhausted. Except for a pair of bright eyes, their faces and nostrils were covered with black dust.
At that time, because we didn't farm and didn't need to harvest wheat, we walked in the street in long skirts. A neighbor's sister-in-law told me, look how nice you are. You look like a big lady. In this season, we rural people must work hard to harvest wheat, otherwise we will all suffer when it rains. Maybe my neighbor's sister-in-law didn't mean anything. I suddenly realized something and went home to change clothes. Maybe this is called bad timing.
Similarly, if you work in the city, if you still wear rustic clothes in the countryside, you will be looked down upon. When you return to the city, you should dress yourself up according to the lifestyle of the city. In today's society, to a great extent, people judge people by their appearances. For example, in some high-end restaurants in the city, you can't get in if you are dressed in rags, and people won't even let you in. Moreover, dressing young and beautiful is a respect for others and for yourself. Again, you should abide by customs and rules wherever you go, and you will adapt yourself to the environment, not the environment. After returning to the city, only by dressing up as a goddess can we be more confident, work and give full play to our talents and charm. Remember, do as the Romans do.
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After getting up every morning, I have to cook, feed the cows and clean the yard, which basically takes me one morning, so after getting up, I will start to brush my teeth and wash my face.
If you see me at this time, you will definitely say that I am a village girl, because I wear clothes that I usually wear to work. I'm not afraid of getting dirty in these clothes.
If I get rid of these useless things today, I'll put on my goddess costume. When I put on my goddess costume, you won't think I'm a village girl.
I go to the city for a period of time every year. Of course, I don't have so much housework and farm work to do when I leave the countryside, so I won't wear those work clothes when I dress. I also need beauty. I think you can understand that.
If you see me at this time, you can't tell whether I'm from the countryside or the city from my clothes. Clothes make the man, horses make the saddle, right?
Every time I go to town, I also take the bus because of the clothes I wear. When I go to town, people will ask me if I have gone home to visit relatives. I always go home by bus. At this time, when people chat with me, they will ask me if you want to go home to visit relatives.
I think it's all about the clothes. If I wear my usual work clothes and go home to town, it is estimated that people who ask me will ask, "Are you looking for a job? What did you buy in town? "
In the past, city dwellers would never buy rural style clothes, while rural people would occasionally buy one or two beautiful clothes to wear, and rural girls would not deliberately buy some clothes in the city just to enter the city. The reason is very simple, they need to spend money and are reluctant to spend it.
It's really different now. The distance between the countryside and the city is getting closer and closer. Many rural girls live or work in cities, but in the end, the countryside is their home and they will come back.
When I come back, I sometimes wear the clothes I often wear when I go to work in the countryside, and sometimes I miss the clothes I wear in the village. Girls sometimes put on clothes to look fresh.
The strange phenomenon in the countryside: "Go home to be a village girl and return to the city to be a goddess". What causes them to change a lot?
Because of the different environment, we need to change clothes to adapt to the environment. Because we are girls, we can wear whatever clothes we want and whatever clothes are practical. This should not be described as strange. It should be said that rural girls have changed a lot and can wear anything!
Change the village ... chicken
First of all, the environment in the village is different from that in the countryside. Let's take winter as an example. In the winter of the city, whether you go to work, stay at home or go shopping, you are in a closed place. The rain can't hit, the wind can't blow, and there is always heating supply. As it happens, the girls in the city love beauty and wear fashionable clothes every day. If they dress up as village girls in the city, they will be teased by others. But in rural areas, where there are such good conditions, there is no heating at home, and I don't know what it will be like to go shopping without wearing thick clothes. Usually, rural people wear clothes with thick patterns, which is a bit rustic compared with the clothes worn by city people.
Other girls will go home to help with farm work at the request of their families during the busy farming season. When I first started to do farm work, I was covered with dirt and dust, and sometimes I had to work in the big sun, and my skin became very dark after a day of sun exposure. Another farm worker will never wear makeup and dress in fashion, so at first glance, you will not come to work, and you will be rejected by your elders.
Usually, the goddess in people's minds is dressed enchanting, wearing beautiful thick makeup and colorful nail polish, which is normal for urbanites. However, the older generation in rural areas find it unacceptable, and they will think that you are neither fish nor fowl, and you can only become a village girl at the request of your elders.
As the saying goes, do as the Romans do. You have to be like a countryman when you go to the countryside, and like a city dweller when you go to the city. It's all about getting into the right environment. It is nothing unusual to go home as a village girl and return to the city to become a goddess. Rural people can also become girls in seconds under good dress.
The above is a personal answer, I hope I can help you.