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"Did you become a man because of a pair of slippers?" Why does a wife's words make her husband desperate?
With the popularity of Internet sales industry, more and more people choose to shop online.

For us, online shopping is convenient and concise, and we can visit most of the flagship stores of Complete Ball by sitting at home.

But the rise of a thing has both advantages and disadvantages, which is common in overuse. Normal and reasonable shopping can save people more money, material resources and even time.

Overshopping will bring greater economic burden to people and even waste more time.

In the past, we used to shop online to save time and economy, but now online shopping wastes a lot of money and time.

This has brought about a series of social reactions, among which the destruction of family relations is the most important, and in the destruction of family relations, the relationship between husband and wife accounts for the vast proportion.

Today we are going to tell such a story. The wife bought a pair of slippers, but the husband took his wife to the Civil Affairs Bureau to ask for a divorce.

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Julie is a girl of 25 years old. Because of her work, she can't spare time all the year round and go out to buy daily necessities. Therefore, most of her shopping is done online.

She will buy almost anything online, from household appliances to socks and slippers, and even order vegetables online. Many vegetables are fresh before delivery.

Using the current network words to describe it, it can be called a house, almost never leaving home.

Last year, because her parents were worried about her living alone, they urged her to find a man to marry through blind date and let him take care of her.

At first, Julie disagreed. She thinks her life is comfortable and she can take care of herself. This is also the lifestyle of many young people in contemporary times. She doesn't think her state is unhealthy.

It was not until online shopping spent all her savings that she agreed to her mother's suggestion and hastily found a boy with a better economic situation to marry.

Julie hasn't changed her online shopping habits since they got married. She can shop online all day. At first, Julie's husband Liu Quan could bear it.

After all, his wife bought some daily necessities, which are also needed in their lives. Julie will choose her own personal belongings for herself, and he was moved for a long time.

Until they got married for two years, Liu Quan wanted to change a car and asked his wife to give him the bank card. I don't know, but when he saw the amount in it, he was shocked.

The financial power has always been in Julie's hands, so Liu Quan didn't ask too much. He doesn't even know where the monthly expenses go. Liu Quan's monthly salary is15,000. Julie doesn't have a job, but fortunately, they don't have a mortgage or a car loan, and the couple are fairly well off.

Liu Quan thought he could save about 200,000 yuan in the past two years, but there was only 2,800 left in Cary. Liu Quan was so scared that he thought Cary's money had been stolen.

Hurriedly ran home and asked his wife what was going on? Julie's answer made Liu Quan even more desperate. He never imagined that his wife could say such a sentence so calmly. Julie said, "I spent money online."

Online shopping itself is a simple way of shopping, but because online shopping has destroyed the family, Julie is still the first person.

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Liu Quan said that he didn't earn much, but he didn't lack food and clothing.

One month's income 15000, but only 2800 was saved in two years.

He flew into a rage and swore at Julie: "What did you buy? Can you spend so much money? Did you buy a helicopter? "

But Julie's next words not only made Liu Quanhuo fly into a rage, but also left him speechless.

Julie said casually, "didn't it cost you some money?" Why are you men so haggle over every ounce? If you earn money, don't give it to your wife. "

Then suddenly the doorbell rang, and Liu Quan forgot to get angry with him and ran to open the door.

Unexpectedly, a courier came outside. Seeing the courier, he was a little annoyed and said to Julie, "I want to see how many things can be loaded in such a small box."

Express opened the package, just a pair of slippers, but these slippers are not quite the same as other slippers. They are covered with all kinds of decorations, and there is a clearly marked shopping list.

This pair of slippers actually cost 4,800 yuan, and Liu Quan was very chilling. He worked hard and gave all his money to Julie.

But she is wearing a pair of 5.5 slippers under her feet. How selfish this woman is to buy herself a pair of 4800 slippers.

Seeing that Liu Quan was finally desperate, he asked Julie for a divorce.

Julie, who looked calm before, began to get angry and said to him, "You divorced me because of a pair of slippers. Are you a man? "

The two men had a big fight about it.

Julie doesn't want a divorce. She just thinks this man is too stingy, but Liu Quan has been violated.

He didn't get to know this woman until now. He usually doesn't cook or do housework at home.

He is considerate of girls now and will help them when he has time. Even when I come back from work, I am very tired and have to cook for this woman. But in his eyes, what he gave should be valuable, at least everyone in the other party can feel his heart, but since this incident, he has completely despaired of Julie.

He is not angry because he can't change cars after spending money. After all, he can earn money by spending money, but this woman's selfishness can never be filled by money and love.

What can a man ask? Nothing more than seeking family harmony, and there is a caring woman waiting for her at home. However, in addition to online shopping at home, Julie has been married to Liu Quan for so many years and has not brought any warmth to Liu Quan.

In the end, the two divorced.

A year later, Liu Quan met another woman, and they soon entered the marriage hall, and they had a very comfortable life. But after Julie divorced, she never got married again.

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There is an old saying: "Being poor is not terrible. If he can marry a good woman, the family will still be very happy. "

This is the case with men and women in TV "The Shepherd".

But if a rich man meets a bad woman, the family will never be happy.

It can be seen that women play a leading role in marriage, which can drive the rhythm and mood of the whole family, thus driving the family's economic operation.

Most happy families have an excellent woman standing behind a man.

Most women who lose their families can destroy an originally happy family.

Looking back at the article, Liu Quan didn't divorce Julie because of a pair of slippers, but Julie always thought that Liu Quan bought a pair of slippers for just over 4,000 yuan.

Essentially, it's because Julie is too selfish to think from the perspective of others. She is always self-centered and will give some benefits to the people around her after satisfying her desires.

Marriage is a Petri dish where two people feel each other, support each other, move forward hand in hand, and resist the wind and rain together, not selfish.