Therefore, tossing and turning is nothing more than this purpose. Such as: love, marriage, divorce, remarriage.
Of course, I believe that everyone's heart will be very eager to have a complete and warm home, especially influenced by traditional concepts. Both the older generation and the younger generation attach great importance to the existence of "home". After all, home can generate unlimited motivation and make a person full of passion for life.
This is one of the reasons why we know that life is so hard, but we still insist on it and are unwilling to give up.
So on the surface, people are always looking for hope all their lives. A divorced person, at most, is the home that he once ran with his predecessor, and it is broken. But this will not affect their own desire for home, so after divorce, they usually choose to remarry and start over.
However, remarriage will involve many factors. I interviewed ten divorced men. Is it really like what it says above?
Are you going to remarry after the divorce? After listening to the hearts of ten divorced men, it is very uncomfortable!
1. Mr. Zhu, 3 1 year old, divorced for 2 years. No, I will never get married again.
After being married once, I dare not hope for women anymore. Destroying a man's fantasy of marriage is simple, as long as he marries the wrong wife once.
I'm 3 1 year-old this year, whether it's big or not.
I just want to live a good life with my daughter. I don't have to look at anyone's face anymore, and I don't have to add trouble to myself.
2. Mr. Cao, 27 years old, divorced for 3 months. I can't refute you when you said that women support the family.
Men just need to earn money to support their families. Everything in the family belongs to women, so don't worry about anything. But now, it is no longer a man, but a woman.
Men should not only earn money to support their families, but also do laundry and cook at home and take care of their lazy ancestors.
Only after divorce did I find out how happy a person's life is, not happiness, but simply too happy. I don't want to get married again. I just want to spend my life happily alone.
Iii. Mr. Liu, aged 29, divorced 1 year. Now that women's status is too high, where can we men climb high?
While calling for women's independence, they feel at ease as "parasites". From time to time, I have to say a few words of "poisoned chicken soup" to emphasize the status of women and ask men how to treat her well.
Shouldn't marriage be like this? Shouldn't two people give to each other?
Remarriage? Don't think about it for a while. I'll think about it when the status of women declines.
Fourth, Mr. Ren, 33 years old, divorced for 2 years. To tell the truth, I want to remarry, but at the same time I don't want to cheat others.
Because I know that after a betrayal, it is difficult for me to trust a woman without reservation. I long for a warm home, but my ex-wife shattered all my desires and fantasies.
She ruined my life and my son's.
Fifth, Mr. Zhou, 35 years old, divorced for 3 years. In my life, I have never owed anyone except my parents.
She earns her own money and spends it, and I earn my own money and spend it for the whole family. I've been married to her for nearly ten years, and she hasn't even washed her underwear once, either by me or by my mother. I'm still not satisfied. Losing your temper at home all day, everyone has to live on her face.
Compared with my mother's grievance, my grievance is really nothing.
I owe my parents too much in my life. I just want to do my filial piety and make up for them with the rest of my life. It's not that I don't want to remarry, but I dare not remarry.
Sixth, Mr. Lu, 34 years old, divorced for 5 months. I can't say everything, at least I dare say that most women are too impetuous now.
If God has pity on me and can let me meet those women, I will still cherish them with my life. But if not, one person is better than two.
With my ex-wife, we have two suites and two cars. At first, she didn't have a job, saying it was boring to take care of the children at home. She complained to me all day and made trouble with me. Later, she opened a small shop of her own, and the child asked me to send it back to my parents.
I can't say how good this day is, at least it is meaningful!
People are still not satisfied and leave without looking back. Now they don't know how they are doing, and they basically don't come back to see the children.
Seventh, Mr. Jiang, 54 years old, divorced for 2 years. In this life, you can't rely on anyone but yourself. I'm not going to remarry. I will take good care of my health and enjoy the great mountains and rivers of China alone.
Eighth, Mr. Feng, 42 years old, divorced for 2 years. When women grow up, they will have their own lives in the future.
The mentality has changed in the past two years, and I really planned it when I first got divorced. Be happy alone. Anyway, there is only one daughter, so it is good for two people to live alone.
But now I understand that people should have a home and a company at any time.
It's just that after all, I was divorced once and was cautious. I will remarry, but I will not remarry casually.
Ninth, Mr. Liang, 38 years old, divorced for 9 months. I see through marriage and human nature.
Now you can't tell what will happen in the future, so be it! What kind of ending will people have in this life, God has already arranged it.
I will still fall in love and get married when I meet the right person, but that failed marriage also made me understand one thing.
Life is realistic and human nature can't stand the test.
Tenth, Mr. Wu, aged 28, divorced 1 year. It's a bit unrealistic to say no to remarriage. Even if I wanted to, my family wouldn't agree.
I understand now that marriage is a matter for two families. It is no use having a good wife. You have to have a reasonable mother-in-law at the same time.
Living, I am most afraid of a third person giving you advice all day.
Will remarry, but will be cautious. Being married once taught me a lot. For example, a good mother-in-law is more important than a good wife.
The above is the truth of ten divorced men interviewed.
There is no way to say whose choice is right and whose choice is wrong. Everyone's experience is different, and their choices may be different, but each one deserves respect.
Only then did I find that divorce has the same impact on men and women, especially those who really pay for it and dig out their hearts.
By the way, you can choose not to remarry, but don't lose your love for life. Shadows are also a part of life. The deeper you get into the shadow, the harder it is to get out of it.
In fact, it is better for people to have a home, not to say that there is a problem with marriage.
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