Lingbao dialect is a very special language family, which is very different from Henan dialect and has little in common. In college, people in the same dormitory can basically understand each other. As far as I am concerned, no one can understand my hometown dialect. When we met a fellow villager, we chattered and gagged, but they were at a loss-did you speak a foreign language? Lingbao dialect is mostly four tones, which sounds awkward, and many spoken languages are "unreliable", so people who don't understand can't guess at all. Even Lingbao's eastern and western accents are quite different. The western dialect is close to Shaanxi dialect, but the eastern accent still doesn't understand where it is similar.
That's too far. But there may be geography, personnel mobility, or other reasons. Special accents and customs are only external manifestations. During the Chinese New Year, I will talk about the customs and pressures of the Chinese New Year from memory.
In the past, during the Spring Festival, there were many stresses and taboos. Not lively, but serious. This grand ceremony began on the 27th and lasted until the "Breaking Five".
Twenty-seven, start steaming steamed bread for the New Year. Most people start steaming three or four cauldrons of steamed bread at three or four in the morning, and it will be dark. The first pot steamed steamed steamed bread, the second pot steamed rice cake, and the jujube wild cake at home was the first and largest one. A piece of cake can fill a fireplace, and then it will be given to the newly married wife and son-in-law, as well as grandchildren. Sometimes five or six grates are cakes. On the day of steaming steamed bread, the door should be bolted and outsiders are not allowed to enter. If outsiders come in with a musty smell, steamed bread will not "rise" and will not turn sour. Generally, after twenty-three, people who know things will not visit other people's homes. Steamed steamed bread, it is necessary to fry "oil Zha (sound)" (similar to small oil cake), fried dough sticks, fried things are also afraid of outsiders coming in, to bolt the door. If you have to go to someone else's house, you have to stand outside the hospital and make a phone call, waiting for someone else's children to come out and ask: Are you steamed stuffed bun? Did you fry the oil? If not, you can enter.
After steaming, stir-fry, then cook the meat, clean up the pig's head, cook the frozen meat, cut the bought tofu into cubes, put it in a colander, steam it, put it in a pot, stir-fry the sauce meat, and put it in a jar with cold dishes such as bean sprouts and lotus seeds. Do all this well, and it will probably be the end of the month (30 years old).
"The end of the month" and the first day are the most important. Since the end of the month, adults have repeatedly told their children that from now on, they can't talk nonsense, cry or fight. Find the ancestral tablet from the corner, wash it and put it in the middle of the hall table. Not much to say, just do what adults say, and there can be no mistakes.
In the afternoon of "the end of the month", the women at home began to pack jiaozi, and the men began to clean the yard and alley, put up Spring Festival couplets, and set off firecrackers to "bake" in hot places. Have breakfast in the afternoon, and you can only shoot it when jiaozi starts cooking. Often at three or four o'clock in the afternoon, he heard gunfire from far and near, and people who didn't pack jiaozi were anxious. Come on, come on, listen, someone else's house has started filming. Jiaozi out of the pot, to "offer" first. In the sound of gunfire, children ran with bowls filled with three Liang jiaozi and a little soup for their ancestors, kitchen gods, land gods, wealth gods and gods. These gods occupy all parts of the yard. If they can't find a place, put it in the yard, or pour out a little soup-"order soup" and bring it back. After the "sacrifice", the family will eat it. The first bowl, the father's, the second bowl, the boy's, the girl's and the mother's are the last bowl.
Jiaozi, who finished eating at the end of the month, began to pack jiaozi on the first morning. Whoever eats it will be blessed if he wants to pack money. Then tidy up the things in the room, scissors, keys, baskets, rolling pins ... all sharp things should be put away, hidden behind the kang mat, or in a drawer, with a broom behind the door. Leave an unlit lamp in the room and be sure to stay on all night. Then the adults told the children not to sneeze. If they want to sneeze, they should rub their noses. They shouldn't shout, cry or talk casually. They should get up early in the morning, stay up at night and put lucky money under their pillows ... there are many taboos and stresses.
Take out the steamed luobing before and put it on the stove plate. You can't move it. You can't cut it until the fifth day. Everyone in the family should have a piece.
On the first morning, mom doesn't have to cook, but dad does. Actually, it was wrapped the night before, jiaozi. You can't use bellows. jiaozi is going to cook and shoot. The children get up early and wait. You can't pour the water for brushing your teeth and washing your face and put it in the bucket. Father put jiaozi down and treated her well. Everyone can't talk loudly and eat quietly. Don't finish the first bowl. Be sure to keep one or two jiaozi, and then the second bowl is called "Return the second bowl". If you can't finish it, you have to return the second bowl. The second bowl is still not allowed to finish. Then pour the leftovers from everyone's bowl into a basin, put them on the kitchen table or chopping board, and wait until it is "broken" before heating. Whoever eats jiaozi's money can't tell anyone loudly, just quietly put the money on the board in the kitchen.
After eating jiaozi, children can go to the yard to pick up unexploded cannons, go out crazy, and tangle with a group of children to see their new wives, and mix some peanuts, walnuts and persimmons. The adults are all ready, waiting for the younger generation with the same surname "family" to pay a New Year call. On the first day of the first year, you can't move needle and thread, knife, scissors, broom or sweep the floor. You can't sweep the floor until evening or the next morning. Eat chaos at noon on the first day (steamed bread with stuffing, unlike steamed bread, shaped a bit like a hat worn by the elderly). Everyone in the family has two. Everyone eats his own, and then eats after the next meal, until the two are finished, and the children outside can't finish eating and take them away.
After the first day of junior high school, I began to visit relatives, and the taste of the New Year became weaker and weaker until the fifth day, which basically ended. "After four or five days, there is less meat and no tofu." That's what I mean.