There is no such custom in Tangshan. The wedding room, car, decoration and furniture have all been discussed. Generally speaking, the cost of house, decoration and furniture should be paid by the man, and the daily necessities should be paid by the woman. If conditions are good, accompany a car. In any case, you can't let the woman pay the down payment and decoration money of the house. This is called inversion. It is the condition that the girl has defects and the man is unwilling to marry her, such as second marriage and pregnancy.