Why do you want to get married and go to the grave?
It is not unlucky to get married and go to the grave. On the contrary, offering sacrifices to ancestors is a respect for ancestors, and life will be smoother in the future. This is a ceremony for your husband's family to admit that you are a member of this family. The cemetery is where the ancestors stayed. If your name is recognized by your ancestors, your wife's name will be stable. This is a way to recognize your identity.
What's so particular about getting married and going to the grave?
Generally, you should bring plates and yellow paper to the grave in Shangxi, and go to the "cemetery" to place tributes and burn yellow paper to pay homage to your ancestors. At the same time, a piece of red paper is pressed on each grave, indicating that there are new incense sticks and incense.
Matters needing attention in marriage
Weddings can't be held underground. The "underground" in Suowei mainly refers to some underground restaurants and entertainment places, which is a great loss of face in Feng Shui and must be avoided. Don't turn off the lights during the wedding. Because the bright lights in the wedding mean the bright future of marriage, and suddenly turning off the lights symbolizes the interruption of marriage, even if turning off the lights is a necessary part of wedding planning, it must be cancelled, otherwise it will affect the feelings of married couples. The layout of the wedding room. The wedding room must have good lighting and plenty of sunshine, which will bring people a sense of intimacy; Although the wedding room can't lack red, the overall color can't be too dark. It is best to take off the red ornaments after marriage, otherwise it will easily make people fidgety and affect their feelings after marriage. As a witness of happiness, wedding photos in a proper location are conducive to enhancing the sense of husband and wife, otherwise it will bring trouble. Generally speaking, wedding photos should not be placed on the bedside, which will bring pressure to the other party, but it will have the opposite effect. There can be no mirror opposite the wedding photo, otherwise the reverse color effect of the mirror will cause cracks between husband and wife; Wedding photos are best placed in the northwest, which is easy to enhance the sense of husband and wife. Don't put wedding photos on the bedside. Putting wedding photos on the bed will put pressure on each other, but it will have the opposite effect.