Regarding the latter, the so-called Eight Immortals showed their magical powers, or earnestly persuaded each other, or took the route of enlightening Dafa, or adopted the method of combining kindness and kindness, trying to get them on the right track as soon as possible.
Time flies, time flies. What kind of life do those "bad students" who didn't like learning and were naughty in those days live after entering universities without walls in society?
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magnosaurus
That year: senior three, 18 years old. Now, 27 years old, single. What impressed him the most was that he had the temperament of a triad boss. Every time I meet him after class, there is always a group of "small followers" behind him.
Other students are racing against time to study, and he still lives a chic life, no matter day or night. When sleeping at night, the head teacher will sneak into the dormitory of other classes to play cards, or climb the wall to go out and sing karaoke online.
After graduating from school, I continued to mix, tattoo, enter pyramid schemes, fight, learn hydropower and do coolies in society.
The hardest work he ever did was in July, when the sun was like a steamer, and he unloaded the trees one by one from the container 13 meters long. Sweat keeps coming out, mixed with dust flying down from the trunk, and permeates into the skin, which is extremely itchy. Although I backed out countless times in my heart, I persisted.
In the third year of graduation, Dalong entered the art production line under the introduction of friends, and has been traveling all over the world since then, including Hongkong, Macau, Taiwan Province Province and Singapore. When he first went to Macau, he went into the city like a bumpkin, and everything was dazzling. He showed off excitedly and boasted with his friends until his mobile phone was in arrears.
When he first controlled the lifting platform, he was very nervous. When the director gave the last ten seconds' instruction, G.E.M. came out from the background, led by two burly bodyguards, followed by a group of stylists, makeup artists and dressers. "5, 4, 3, 2, 1 0", the countdown stops, and the lifting platform falls perfectly.
I asked, what's it like to see a star? He said that once he was smoking backstage, Jordan chan came up and said, "Excuse me, please give me a light." Such close contact with the stars excited him. But it will be normal after a long time, just like seeing ordinary people.
The production of dance beauty sounds very tall, but it is actually very hard. It's normal to stay up late, even often, and I have to wander around and have no place to live. I didn't expect that the handsome man in those days was unambiguous, able to stand the toss and turn, and still be prosperous.
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Bobo.
That year: senior three, 18 years old. Now: 27 years old, with a son and a daughter. What impressed him most was burying himself in his desk all day and reading novels quietly. A complete fan of short stories, if you put this effort into your study, you will probably be admitted to 985.
I majored in medicine at the university. Although my homework is full, I fell in love with playing games in my spare time. After graduation, Bobo became a surgeon in a famous hospital in his hometown. After work, I still like to play games and play. I actually developed a game product myself, and then sold it and made a fortune.
Because I love reading novels, I have a strong desire to express myself and start writing. Serialized a novel on the Internet, and it took 500,000 to 600,000 words to start writing. Whether it's a game or a novel, I admire him for turning his interest into productivity, obsessed with it without sinking, and stopping when it's time.
I'm curious why a person who likes playing games so much suddenly loses interest, because many people who are addicted to it can't extricate themselves. He said, because as a doctor, you have to keep studying and you need to spend time reading professional books, so you naturally have no time to play games or read novels. Over time, interest has greatly decreased.
That's true. Maybe those who can't quit the game addiction are because they haven't found anything more worth investing or putting their energy into.
I said that the hospital is the best place to witness human nature. Have you stayed long enough to see the birth, illness, death and illness thoroughly? He said, yes, many wonderful things happen every day, between patients and their families, between patients and doctors, and between doctors and doctors. The first time I saw a dead person, I was shocked and scared, but I got used to it after a long time. But being able to save a dying person is the most fulfilling thing for a doctor.
His life now is simple and satisfying. He goes to work, takes care of children and reads books. Life is neither salty nor light, but it is also safe and practical. I haven't seen him for several years, but he is not a naughty boy, but a "bad student" who doesn't like learning in the eyes of the teacher, and he is transformed into "angels in white" who saves people in a white coat.
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hadron
That year: sophomore, 17 years old. Now: 26 years old, with a son and a daughter. What impressed him most was that he was often called to the office by the class teacher, met him ten times in the office, made eight squats and wrote two reviews. But people are handsome and sweet. When they see me, they always call Sister He with a smile.
Once on his birthday, he asked for leave, imitated the signature of the class teacher, and went out to eat and drink with friends. Drunk, stagger back to the classroom to study at night. I asked him if he could hold on. He said yes, how could my sister be absent from class? Say that finish, snapped on the table.
College students majoring in navigation are all boys. It is difficult to find a job after graduation. I worked as a wine tray for a year, and then I chose to be a sailor. A trip to sea, at least one month before landing, staying on the boat every day, or fishing to watch the sunrise, or chatting until there is nothing to say, becomes more and more boring and even confused and depressed.
But not without running. You have to pay the mortgage and raise two babies. It's stressful. He said that the biggest wish now is to open a small shop, stay with his wife and children, and do his duty as a father.
When chatting with Hadron, it happened to be the day after he came back from the sea. He sent me some small videos. For a while, he is baking pancakes for his children, for a while, his son is eating cakes with relish, for a while, he is playing with the children, and his face is full of happiness.
The boy who used to do nothing and play around all day has grown into a man with responsibility, pressure, ideas and some helplessness.
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rich
That year: grade three, 15 years old. Now: 2 1 year old, hotel manager. What impressed him most was that I had never seen him read a book. Even if I force him, I just pretend to be reading and hanging around all day. But very loyal, respect teachers and love friends. I still remember when I was near graduation, I left the evening self-study in their class. Xiaokang begged me in the last ten minutes to hold a graduation party. I said that I can't decide this matter, and I need the consent of the class teacher. He said that the head teacher would never agree, and he chose this day to give me evening self-study.
Looking at the snacks, cups, wine and expectant eyes they prepared, I rolled my eyes and said, five minutes. Before the cheers sounded, I said the condition was to keep my voice down. Well, I was afraid of being caught by the leaders and ruining their fun, so I asked for my psychological shadow area.
Xiaokang didn't go to high school After graduating from junior high school, he studied the legendary excavator technology for a while, but he didn't like it in his heart. Later I went to Guangzhou and worked as a waiter in a five-star hotel. Because he is good at dealing with people, he gradually comes into contact with some high-level customers and occasionally eats, drinks and chats with them.
Two years later, he was promoted to the department manager of the catering and entertainment department. However, there is a lot of pressure, such as staying up late every day, socializing and drinking, lack of sleep, and unstable wages, ranging from 20,000 to 30,000 to 78,000. His family really wants him to come back to work, but he is in a dilemma because he has no education and skills.
I asked, what are your plans? He said step by step. After all, he is still young and has no capital. He said those long-term goals were just empty talk. I asked, have you ever regretted not studying hard? He said he never regretted it, because it was not that he didn't work hard, but that he really couldn't learn, not that piece of reading material. Well, you are a person with a clear understanding of yourself.
It's a pity that the students get together and will never get together again. I can't bear to tell him the fact, because in the next few years, other students met new high school students and college students, and they had others, and you only had them. They may not understand your regret and sadness.
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Chaoge
That year: 14 years old, second grade. Now: 20 years old, businessman. What impressed him most in those days was that he never attended classes or did his homework, fought, skipped classes, bullied female classmates, fell in love, etc., and really reached the top of the "bad students". It is called "Brother Chao" in Jianghu.
The worst fight was that he broke the other side, and the public security bureau ran away without finding him. Later, I simply dropped out of school and hung out with gangsters in society all day, fooling around, eating, drinking and fighting. After mixing for a year, one night, it suddenly occurred to me that if I live like this all my life, my life will really be over.
After returning home, he said that he would do business with his father and start a wedding company for four or five years. I asked him if he would be infected if he often saw others happy. He said that he had been in silence. /kloc-when he was 0/8 years old, he talked about a sad love. The other party is a mixed society lady. She was fooling around and almost jumped off a building for her.
I don't think it's that I'm young and don't understand love, but that I take love too seriously, and it's hard to get out of trouble when I'm injured. However, the gentle knife of time will always slowly cut off the erosion of the wound until new cells grow.
Finally, he said that his goal was to be a Taoist, and he had studied with his grandfather for two years. This really surprised me, and it was so different from when he was studying. But in any case, it is a good way to live according to your own ideas and act in that direction.
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Stars.
That year: 14 years old, second grade. Now: 20 years old, sophomore. What impressed me most was that he was very active in class, as if he knew everything, but he failed the exam once, which made me feel puzzled. People are tall and handsome, naughty, but not naughty. In the third grade, I was distracted by falling in love, so I only got a third-rate high school in the senior high school entrance examination.
When I was a freshman, I came to my alma mater every day for a while, and I learned about his dropping out of school. He said that there was no learning atmosphere in the class, so he couldn't learn at all, so he simply stopped reading. No matter whether I put the facts or make sense, he was forced back by his uncle.
I was a monitor in high school for three years. The craziest thing I did was to pretend to tell the class teacher that I had a cold and wanted to ask for leave on the day Kobe retired, so I led a dozen basketball players in my class to the Internet cafe. After they came back, the class teacher joked that you went to the internet cafe to check. Did you get over your cold?
Now a sophomore, he said he wanted to drop out of school. Anyway, he has to work. Why not come out early and work hard? I said it directly. You are so naive. You can't do anything unless you have money at home. What can you do to fight?
Yes, I have to work sooner or later anyway, but what's the harm of waiting for two years to get my diploma? If you really want to feel the social university in advance, you can study and work part-time. There is no need to go all out and retreat. He said that he had made all the plans, and his two sisters promised to invest and open a snack bar for him in such and such a place.
He said he didn't want to be tied down any more. Going to college is more painful than going to high school. The head teacher and counselor are too strict, so they are not allowed to take time off without class. I think he must be exaggerating. Is it difficult to carry out militarized management?
I know he wants freedom, but he never has absolute freedom. Whether you go to work according to the rules or open your own shop, you will be bound by others. What you think of as escape is just jumping from one circle to another.
He said that his ideal is to earn a lot of money and let his family live a good life, especially after his mother died, and he felt that his father was much older. Maybe that's why he really wants to quit school.
I comforted, I can understand your feelings, you have suffered too much. But sometimes we have to admit that the reality is cruel. Before we succeed, there will always be several hurdles waiting for us. It is impossible to cross the past at once unless the weather is right and the people are in harmony. It is good to have an ideal, but there is another saying, haste makes waste.
I hope the stars can think carefully, look far and stop falling into endless entanglements. Of course, this is just my personal opinion. After all, one person can't make choices instead of another.
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These are the naughty "bad students" I interviewed these days. Due to the limited space, I only wrote these six representatives. Others have chosen to be soldiers and are being trained like demons; Some follow the rules to work and start to be cautious; Some have opened car beauty shops, which are flourishing; Some people risk playing the edge of the law. ...
In fact, whether it is a "good student" or a "bad student", it is just a prejudice in the reading age. Even if you are labeled like this, it doesn't mean that it will be good or bad from now on. You can't judge a person's future life just because of his performance at a certain stage.
As a teacher, everyone wants to do their best to make "bad students" lose themselves. But there are always differences between individuals, and sometimes they have to let nature take its course and respect the growth trajectory of each life.
As a teacher, I sincerely hope that every student can live well. Life is long, don't worry too much. Your efforts and decisions in a certain period may make your future life completely different from before.
May you not live in past regrets, and may you embrace a bright future!