Generally, old Suzhou people will pay a small amount of dowry and gold and silver jewelry when they get engaged. Soon after marriage, they will pay a large dowry, because the groom's family has to prepare a house, decorate it and buy a bed, while the bride's purchase of household appliances and daily necessities depends on the economic situation of the two companies. If possible, the bride's dowry will also have a car. According to the market price, the bride probably won't have any money left after buying those things, so it depends on your family.

In addition, if the family's economy is good, you can post some money. After all, your parents are just your daughters, and if the dowry is too much, your parents' faces will be polished.