Engagement: the man gives gifts to the woman's house, such as chicken, fish, meat, eggs, cigarettes, sugar, wine, etc. And the woman will give the man a gift. It doesn't matter if the woman goes shopping at the man's house the next day. The man's parents will give her another gift, but the gift should be exquisite and must be more than that given by the woman's family. In some places, it is doubled, such as (the woman gives the man 10000, then the man gives her 20000), as the case may be. The next step is to set a wedding date. The man will take his birthday to the woman's house and ask her to set a wedding date on it (just a formality, but actually it's just a birthday). Some women don't give it to you for the first time, and the man will ask for a second time (usually the second time is definitely given).
Marriage: the man mainly gives money for chicken legs, getting on the bus fare and getting off the bus fare. The main thing in the box is what I brought. There are many things in the box. Some people understand, but I don't quite understand. In short, there is no shortage. Finally, I took the bride home, and then the next day I took her back to her family. This is called Huimen.
This is probably the process. ....