The passion generated by romantic love is both intoxicating and painful. Only so far, we still know very little about this relationship between men and women called love. For some people, it is just a temporary madness, like a storm, and the mood is fleeting; For others, love is a sacred place that can never be touched. She will leave a beautiful part of her life and can recall it from time to time. After witnessing and experiencing romantic tragedies, many people think that love is just an illusory hope. As a result, more and more people are no longer willing to bear the privacy and fragility of love, and instead develop their own irresponsible and uncommitted relationships. Some people don't even have passion Psychologists, sociologists and anthropologists have also joined the criticism of romantic love. They think that "passion is the basis of forming eternal feelings" is a naive illusion and only a neurotic product of modern western culture. People begin to get along with the opposite sex with good hope for the future and sincere love. However, with the passage of time, this relationship eventually fell apart, leaving a lot of pain and confusion. When they look back on their days together, they find that they once loved each other so much, so they are puzzled: how did they lose all this? If I know today, why should I know? They think that if this sincere love will die, what love will last forever? Is there true love in the world? Maybe it's time to end the childhood dream of playing house. Until one day, when they don't even think about these problems, it means that torture is gone, and only numbness remains. They will comfort themselves at some point: this numbness means maturity. Indeed, in our culture, many people comfort themselves like this. But people still love. Life returns to death, and death returns to life, as if life never stops. The stage of life is still lively. People will also be driven by inexplicable excitement, strive for perfection that few people have achieved, and will not be disillusioned with any hope that may appear in the future. Romantic love is not an illusion, but an opportunity to prove our existence, an adventure and a challenge. I also believe that being crazy about love is a normal phenomenon in our emotional life. I have never regarded romantic love as a privilege for young people, and it is certainly not an ideal in some literary works. I think romantic love is an indispensable part of many of us in the process of self-maturity and perfection, and its importance far exceeds our general cognition. This is one of the central topics in this book. There are many kinds of love between people. The romantic love mentioned in this book refers to the strong attachment between men and women in spirit, emotion and sex. It is the embodiment of one party's high recognition of the other.