I don't know if you have had such an experience. A classmate or so-called friend who hasn't been in contact for 800 years, the role of ta is to stay in the contact list all the time, that is, to boast about your spatial dynamics or friends, and you didn't invite ta when you got married. Suddenly one day, ta contacted you, and they chatted a little. Then ta came straight to the point and said that I was getting married and invited you over. Isn't it obvious that you should collect money from members? He needs nothing in return. This is probably the only time you two will have contact in your life. You should go to ta's wedding. It's really terrible!
I remember reading a story that a former junior high school classmate or senior high school classmate asked 800 people for your contact information in order to inform you and let you come to t a's wedding. Ta has the face to invite you, but you have the face to refuse ta, so you have to go. This means of asking for money clearly is really terrible.
Actually, it's not just a marriage partner. Recently, my family was invited to a wedding reception by a relative on my mother's side. You'll never think that the reason for holding a wedding reception is that the children got hundreds of points in the college entrance examination (very low score, I'm embarrassed to say), but their customs there should be there, and they have always been like this, accepting money aboveboard. I heard from my mother that a host did such a thing. At that time, when he was the host, he was embarrassed to say that his score was low, and people were directly embarrassed on the court. Really, all kinds of wedding banquets are really a burden now. Terrible!