In rural Baoding, all married guests have to get married, and there are still old people in the family who are not alive. Ask the person in charge of weddings and funerals in the village to help. Generally, wedding guests will be invited about one month before the wedding day, and funeral guests will kneel and kowtow to the person in charge of weddings and funerals in the village on the same day, and ask the person in charge of weddings and funerals to help. My father is the head of our village, so I know this very well.