1, three days before marriage, the man's family should give the woman a cloak, a bun, etc.
The day before the wedding, the man's family will send a jar of wine to the woman's family. When a daughter gives birth to a child, her family will use this jar to deliver wine to her daughter. On National Day, the man hired a sedan chair to drum music, carried a big lantern to the woman's house to greet the bride, and carried the bride's dowry with him.
At noon, the woman's family held a mother's banquet to send the bride. In the afternoon, the bride will take off her hair, dress up, braid her hair into a bun, put on new embroidered shoes, put on mourning clothes, bid farewell to her parents and elders, and then be carried by her father and brother in a sedan chair.
4, some want to cry and marry without tears, to show the two families from now on; Some brides have to change their earth shoes when they get on the sedan chair, which means not to take away their parents' feng shui. The bride's brother asked his uncle to sit in the sedan chair to see her off. Drums beat all the way, and firecrackers kept ringing. This answer is for reference only. Don't be blindly superstitious.