Eve of marriage
Worship: the man should worship the ancestors of heaven and earth the day before the wedding and inform them that there is a wedding to be held.
Anqing Li: according to the eight characters, the house is facing ... to worship the mother's bed.
Wedding anniversary
Ancestor worship: Before a man gets married, he should worship his ancestors first.
Wedding procession: Even numbers are best, and multiples of 6 are best.
Firecrackers: firecrackers should be set off all the way to celebrate the wedding car.
Sister table: Before the bride leaves, she should have dinner with her family to show her farewell, and everyone should say auspicious words.
Please invite the groom: when the limousine arrives at the woman's house, a boy is waiting for the groom with a tea tray. After getting off the bus, the groom gave the boy a red envelope as a gift and then entered the woman's house.
Beaming: After seeing the bride's family say hello, the groom should hold a bouquet for the bride to be married. At this time, the bride's sister or close friend should deliberately stop him. After the groom pleads for mercy, he will make a deal with a red envelope of 999 yuan, which means a long time.
Veil: After the groom holds the flowers, he puts down the bride's veil and pulls it out of the hall.
Farewell: the bride and groom burn incense to worship their ancestors, the bride bows to her parents and the groom bows.
Going out: The bride is escorted by a lucky female elder with a bamboo curtain or a black umbrella and enters the limousine.
Gift car: a bamboo should be hung from the root to the leaf, and radish is hung on the root, indicating that it has a head and a tail. Behind the limousine, there are gossip and bamboo ornaments painted in ink.
Fan worship: Before the bride gets on the limousine, the lucky boy will hold a fan and put it on the tea tray to give the bride a red envelope gift.
Never say goodbye: never say goodbye to a woman's family when everyone is leaving her home.
Splashing water: After the bride gets on the limousine, her parents will sprinkle a bowl of water, rice and white rice on her body, indicating that her daughter has splashed water. I wish her food and clothing.
Throwing a fan: after the car starts, the bride throws the fan out of the window to show that she has abandoned her bad temper; Cry a few times after throwing the fan, and put a bamboo curtain behind the car to symbolize wealth.
The wedding team takes bamboo curtain as the first, with green bamboo with roots and leaves, and a piece of pork at the end of the bamboo to prevent evil spirits and white tigers.
Firecrackers: set off a salute all the way. When the car arrives at the man's door, firecrackers should be set off at home.
Touch oranges: A child greets the couple with two oranges, and the bride gently touches the oranges and presents a red envelope as a gift.
Holding the bride: When the bride got off the limousine, the man, a lucky elder, held a bamboo curtain on the bride's head and helped her into the hall.
Avoid stepping on the threshold: the threshold represents the facade, and newcomers should cross the threshold.
When the bride enters the hall, she must step over the brazier and crush the tiles.
Tea: Introduce the bride to the elders at home.
Worship heaven and earth: couples worship heaven and earth, worship the temple, and husband and wife worship each other and send them to the bridal chamber.
Into the bridal chamber: cover the bed with bamboo curtains, put a bronze mirror on the table to suppress the alarm, and the couple sat on the bench with the groom's pants in advance to show unity and hope to have a boy in the future. Then the groom lifts the bride's veil, raises a glass and eats sweet soup together, symbolizing the early birth of your son.
Avoid sitting in a new bed: no one can sit in a new bed on the wedding day.
Wedding reception: entertain guests and hold ceremonies at the same time.
Fujian: After the wedding banquet, the couple stood at the door with wedding candy to see Fujian off.
Tea: The married relatives and friends of the man drink the sweet tea of the bride, say auspicious words and give red envelopes.
Make trouble in the bridal chamber. In Japan, the Japanese think that marriage is a major turning point in life, so they are extremely cautious about marriage. Marriage in Japan is mostly combined with some religious ceremony, including pre-divine marriage, pre-Buddha marriage and Christian marriage. According to Japanese tradition, young people have many rules, from meeting, concluding engagement, giving bride price to revealing banquet. If they don't master them well, they are often criticized. Therefore, Japanese people who are ready to get married, especially women, usually attend classes to learn the necessary etiquette before getting married. In Japan, apart from free love, young men and women are mostly introduced by acquaintances. When entrusting others to introduce people, the Japanese are willing to entrust more reliable people, so I will have more choices. In addition to oral entrustment, under normal circumstances, the Japanese will introduce my photo, resume and family to the introducer. There are usually two photos, a dress photo and a life photo. Writing paper pays attention to high-grade paper, and it is considered impolite to write with post-it notes. Always keep in touch with references. However, the Japanese think it is impolite to keep urging during the entrustment period of one week to one month. If you are not satisfied with the other party's materials, the male (female) party will inform the other party within one week. If it is because the living conditions are not satisfactory, they will express it clearly. If you are interested in each other's written materials, then enter the stage of meeting and dating. Generally speaking, when meeting and dating in Japan, try to avoid the meal time, from 10 to 12 in the morning and 1 4 in the afternoon. One to two hours at a time is more appropriate. Generally, you have to arrive ten minutes in advance to meet. Japanese people want to see each other when they meet and date. So you'd better wear casual clothes. When Japanese meet for the first time, most of them will directly ask each other many questions, such as current income, working in a company, future development prospects and so on. This will not be regarded as rude by the other party. If you are not satisfied with the other person's situation, you will also show your attitude on the spot, so that you will get the other person's understanding. A Japanese introducer will not tell the other party the shortcomings of the object or family he introduced. It is an unwritten principle that shortcomings are often discovered by the other party in contact. Once the two parties decide to get married, the introducer will quickly congratulate them. It is fashionable to give new people gold products of 30,000 to 50,000 yen now. Generally, the introducer personally gives the gold products to the groom. In Japan, people think that engagement does not have the same legal effect as marriage certificate, so gold products become a kind of folk evidence. In case one party fails to fulfill the agreement, it can be treated with gold products. The bride price varies from place to place in Japan, usually wine, kelp, dried squid, dried bonito and other foods. Now Japanese department stores can buy five, seven and nine packages of bride price. There are seven traditional Japanese bride price gifts, namely Nobuhiro (white fan), Tomoshi Yoshikazu (white hemp thread), Zishengfu (kelp), Song Hui Festival (dried bonito), longevity rice (dried squid), happy house (Liu Zun) and golden bag (bride price money). Speaking of bride price money, now, the Japanese are afraid to send 800 thousand, thinking that 80 is a number in the middle of nowhere, which is unlucky. When giving the bride price money, write down the names of all the members of the woman's family. The name of the deceased must not be omitted, otherwise it will cause unnecessary turmoil. In recent years, many families have used the form of engagement instead of bride price, rented a room in the hotel, and the man gave the wedding ring to the woman at the wedding ceremony. In today's Japan, the cost of bride price and engagement ceremony is generally shared equally by two families. Gifts for introducers are usually given after the wedding. However, when an engagement ceremony is held, only the fare and money for eating and drinking are generally given to the introducer. When holding a pre-god wedding ceremony, the wine in the 339-degree cup presented by the goddess must be finished, otherwise it is unlucky. In the eyes of the Japanese, marriage is not only the beginning of sexual life for men and women, but also the obligation to participate in social production and reproduce. Mother is a symbol of this obligation. Draw a female moth on the long-handled hip flask and a male moth on the short-handled hip flask. When the ceremony is held, the groom holds a short hip flask to add wine to the long hip flask, that is, he signals the male moth to inject wine to the female moth, and the bride holds a long hip flask representing the female moth to inject wine into the cup. The goddess of the two altars took turns toasting the bride and groom with wine glasses. This wine is a 339-degree glass. When exchanging wedding rings, the groom usually puts the ring on the ring finger of the bride's left hand first. When holding a Christian wedding, the passage in the center of the church is only reserved for the groom, bride and bridesmaid, and others can only take the bypass.
When holding a pre-Buddha wedding, both the bride and groom in Japan should bring beads of Buddha, and the newlyweds should burn incense to their ancestors and pray for their protection. Japanese people attending public wedding banquets usually give gifts to newlyweds. Gift money ranges from 5000 to 50000 yen. They must be packed in gift bags decorated with gold and silver ropes.