First of all, it is natural and reasonable to take responsibility for children. Grandparents should not replace them, let alone seize the learning opportunities in the process of children's growth. They also need to learn to be the parents of their grandchildren and do a good job in educating their children. Secondly, there will be a generation gap in the next generation, which no one can change. If there is a generation gap, there will be contradictions and estrangements that cannot be reconciled. Only if one or both sides constantly compromise can it be a peaceful and stable way of life. It is the same torture and unfairness to each other's body and mind, and it is even more unfavorable to the education of grandchildren. The formation of the three views will also be vague, one-sided and messy.
My point is that we don't care about children's affairs, including work, life, study and grandchildren's educational ideas. But when we need help, we will do it without hesitation and try our best to finish it.
Usually arrange your life well, do something beneficial to your physical and mental health, and your favorite lifestyle. Arranging our lives well is the greatest help and love for children.
I am a travel enthusiast, and I think I will definitely travel when I retire at the age of 60!
Travel as soon as you have time recently! I have been to many places, taken many photos and videos, and recorded the bits and pieces of my travel life! Now, my spare time life is very colorful, and I feel younger than before 10 years old. Travel has brought me many different experiences! Before, I was either working or staying at home, and the outside world seemed to be isolated from me, although I saw some pictures and videos of scenic spots on TV or on the Internet. However, these pictures and videos will not leave a deep impression on me!
In the past six months, I have been to many museums, parks, places of interest and so on! I have been to Beiling Park, which has a history of more than 300 years, and I have seen the underground palace of Huang Taiji. I have also been to the dinosaur museum, which children especially like, and I have seen many large dinosaur fossils and gained a deeper understanding of paleontology. I've been to Shenyang Middle Street, the first commercial pedestrian street in China, which is very long, and the traffic is very large every day! There are many local snacks here, such as Zhongjie cauldron, baked bean skin, mala Tang, mutton kebabs and so on! I have also been to Bayi Park, and many people come here for a walk and leisure! There are many models, tank models and shell models in Bayi Park, which opened my eyes! I feel that the world is diverse and colorful! After seeing so many different scenery, I regret that there were too few previous trips!
So, I think, if you and your wife retire at 60, you'd better go out for a walk! Go to places you haven't been before, just look around and travel! In fact, your children also want you to be happy! Children also have their own lives. Too much interference in their lives sometimes backfires! The best state is that parents have their parents' lives and children have their children's lives, so a happy life is a beautiful life!
Around 2050, I am 60 years old.
In 2050, China has entered a well-off society in an all-round way and entered the ranks of developed countries, and medical care and education will be free for all.
The population has dropped to 10 billion, the housing supply is sufficient, and the mortgage pressure is very small.
After more than 20 years of training, my daughter has obtained a master's degree and is studying for a doctorate.
In the second year of his master's degree, I held a grand wedding for her and paid my trust to someone who loved her.
They are all advancing in their respective academic fields and have no plans to have children for the time being.
They have their own house, sufficient research funds and their own income every month.
I don't need to be free, I don't need to worry.
By 2050, most scenic spots in China will be free of tickets for the elderly.
The traffic is developed and it is more convenient to travel.
After working hard for most of my life, I can finally see the world with people who have worked hard all my life before I get old and weak.
We go out four times a year, once in spring, summer, autumn and winter.
Yangzhou is warm in March, with ten miles of peach blossoms and ten miles of cherry blossoms.
In summer, the sea is hot and the mountains are cool.
It's crisp in autumn, and I taste fruits and vegetables with a smile.
Northeast Kang is the most suitable place to wrap mink clothes in the ice and snow.
Travel around Europe, plus the United States, Canada and the Caribbean.
African grasslands look at migration, and the Arctic ice sheet looks at aurora.
You can invite the bright moon for nine days, dive in the deep sea and live in the Dragon Palace.
Only a few years are satisfactory and time pays off.
After seeing this problem, I want to express my thoughts!
We are all children. Although I am not old enough to retire, what I want to see most is that my parents send me a WeChat saying: Sasha, we are playing in Dali today, as beautiful as the Internet!
Yes, as children, we all hope that our parents will do it for me, not for me! Except us, we don't want their lives to be interesting! We don't want to see our parents work hard for the first half of our lives and for the second half of our lives!
Of course, I think that as a parent now, I should certainly pay 100% efforts to my child and watch her grow up, from a little girl to a big beauty. On the road of her growth, we will definitely give her everything within our power, whether it is education or economy, and we will not let her suffer any injustice. I am responsible for my child, and let her be responsible for the child's child! I believe that parents are the best teachers for children!
Some time ago, I saw a sentence on the Internet: Parents are a wall between children and death. In other words, when parents are absent, children will face death! Parents in life, parents only have a way to go home when they live. There are too many such cases around us. Parents have been down and out all their lives, have no life of their own, and have never traveled far, just for their children. But as children, do they really want to see this? The answer is: no!
It's like I'm glad to see my parents go out to play, see them meet new friends, and see them have a party for the elderly. All this happiness comes from the happiness of parents!
When the children grow up, let them run in by themselves. Please don't restrain them. Even if they leave their hometown, all we can do as parents is to watch him from a distance, watch him get better, and then take our other partner and live our own lives! Arranging your own life is the best help for your children!
Therefore, when I retire at the age of 60, I will definitely take my wife out to travel, regardless of the children or something!
But as long as they need it, I will appear immediately!
Yes, I think our children will be very old by then, and we don't need to take care of them anymore. They can live their own lives, and then it's time for us to enjoy life. If we don't travel, how long will we go out, and what awaits us is poor health or getting old? That is not realistic at all.
So I'm going out to see the scenery and see the changes in China now, so there will be no regrets in the future, right? And going out to have a look is also good for your health. You can relax and it is good for your health.
For example, more than ten years ago, my grandmother and my grandfather went out to play, and we all agreed. Go out and see more, take more photos, and leave some memories when you are still walking. It's really beautiful. I like traveling very much. We can learn a lot through traveling.
Before the implementation of delayed retirement in China, 60-year-old retirement belongs to the normal retirement age of men. At present, I have retired and so has my wife. As for your question, "When you retire at the age of 60, will you leave your children and your two wives to travel by themselves?" The question is answered by the actual practice of my wife and I.
First of all, it is reported that my wife and I only have one child, which is the only child. At that time, unlike now, there was a second child policy. At that time, a couple could only have one child. When we had our first son, we didn't have a chance to have a second child, let alone a second daughter. If we have twins, it may still be twins. The children are complete. Ha ha! )。 Now, my son has grown up and become a family, and now he is also a father.
His wife and granddaughter are playing at the foot of the mountain on the border between China and Kazakhstan.
After my wife and I retired, he was in charge of my son until he got married. Eat and dress, go to school, buy a house and a car, get married and start a business, and always take care of my son mentally and materially. My son is usually short of money. As long as he opens his mouth, it's a phone call. My wife and I will respond positively without discount. However, the specific things are handled by my wife. Me, man, I never ask about small things (hehe, regardless of money). When I first retired, I felt very idle, so some people suggested to travel, set up a self-media and then share the travel through the self-media. That's a good idea. I will make every effort. What should I do if I travel without a car? My wife decided to buy it. So I got a car, and it was also off-road in the city. My son is a sleeping car, and my son and I each have a car key for two cars. After my granddaughter was born, my wife and I were busier. In short, my wife and I will always take care of our son as long as he needs our help.
My wife took her granddaughter to visit cherry orchard in Xinjiang Corps 163.
The average life expectancy of people in China has risen to 76 years, which means that there is still 16 years to retire from 60 to the average life expectancy. This is a short time. How did we get here in the first 60 years? Carefree childhood, hard-working teenagers, hard-working middle-aged and young people, what should I do when I get old? Tourism determination is a form of activity suitable for the elderly. Young people travel, and we old people should be no exception.
The picture shows my son taking pictures of his mother on his way to Dooku Highway.
My son and I have a tacit understanding of travel. Usually play in the suburbs, each driving his own car and each bringing his own home. I will take my wife, mother-in-law and son with me when I am away from home. 2065438+July 2008, after the Duku Highway in Xinjiang was opened to traffic, I sent my son to the Duku Highway together and spent eight days traveling all over southern Xinjiang. My wife took her mother-in-law and friends to Kuqa Palace to play.
2065438+In August 2008, I asked my brother's family to drive two cars to plow the fields. We have time. Since we are retired and our son has to go to work, we have to take our wife on a trip. Last winter, my son and I discussed going to Ili and Bole to see swans. Originally, my son was going, but then something happened. Later, I went with my wife and mother-in-law for three days. At that time, the snowy road was slippery, which worried my son. Then I called to ask how it was. Hi! The children are not at ease when two wives go out for a trip.
My wife is watching swans in Binhe Park in Bole City.
In short, the child is born by himself and is the closest person in the world. No matter before or after retirement, children are their own. This one won't retire, regardless of the children. This has nothing to do with the old couple not being able to travel.
First of all, it is natural and reasonable to take responsibility for children. Grandparents should not replace them, let alone seize the learning opportunities in the process of children's growth. They also need to learn to be the parents of their grandchildren and do a good job in educating their children. Secondly, there will be a generation gap in the next generation, which no one can change. If there is a generation gap, there will be contradictions and estrangements that cannot be reconciled. Only if one or both sides constantly compromise can it be a peaceful and stable way of life. It is the same torture and unfairness to each other's body and mind, and it is even more unfavorable to the education of grandchildren. The formation of the three views will also be vague, one-sided and messy.
My point is that we don't care about children's affairs, including work, life, study and grandchildren's educational ideas. But when we need help, we will do it without hesitation and try our best to finish it.
Usually arrange your life well, do something beneficial to your physical and mental health, and your favorite lifestyle. Arranging our lives well is the greatest help and love for children.
So, I think, if you retire at 60, you'd better go out for a walk! Go to places you haven't been before, just look around and travel! In fact, your children also want you to be happy! Children also have their own lives. Too much interference in their lives sometimes backfires! The best state is that parents have their parents' lives and children have their children's lives, so a happy life is a beautiful life!
I will travel with my wife. I have been studying and growing for the first 20 years of my life, and I have been running for my family and career for the middle 40 years. Many people really have their own time until retirement.
First of all, children have children's lives. Parents and children have their own lives, and it is not necessarily a good thing to mix with each other. Many family conflicts are caused by parents' excessive interference in their children's lives. After all, the two generations have different life concepts, and some things may not be manageable even if they want to.
Secondly, people live all their lives. When we are working, we always sigh that we don't have enough time and money to go out, but when we really retire and have time, you should make sure that you have the body to go out. My parents often tell me that it's early to go out and play, and don't wait until I'm 60, because I may have various physical problems.
Finally, lifelong companionship is not easy. Life can accompany you to the end, not a child. Children will eventually get married and be able to accompany you to the old lady. In the last few decades of my life, seeing the world and traveling around the world with my wife is also a beautiful memory. Maybe one day I have Alzheimer's disease, and I don't remember anything, but there are still wonderful encounters in my life. I have been to this place before.
One day, my husband asked my daughter, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" She said, "I want to be a cook when I grow up!" " "Dad said," Why do you want to be a cook? " She said, "in this way, I can cook good food for my mother every day!" ""The husband said, "When you grow up, you will find your mother annoying, and make her good food. Maybe you think she's too old to throw it away at the bridge. "My daughter said," No way. My mother ignored her grandmother, and she didn't throw her mother away. Why should I throw my mother away? " It warms my heart. In fact, there are many warm-hearted words, perhaps because she is still young and most dependent on me, so she thought of her mother first. But we really love this little guy. When I was born, my husband said that she would not be allowed to leave us for more than three days, which meant: either I was detained or he was detained. My husband also planned her future, saying that if we want to study abroad, the two of us will follow and let me improve my English. When she was young, her home was where we were; When she grows up, our home will be where she is.
Speaking of travel, just born two months ago, we took her from near to far, and now the habit is: no matter how good the scenery is, it will be boring without family! Therefore, as long as my husband doesn't work overtime on weekends, we will definitely go out. Our mood is very harmonious. It is hard to imagine that we will retire in the future and only the old couple will travel.
First of all, I have made up my mind to live, learn and work until I am old. Therefore, the word "retirement" is not in my life plan!
Secondly, I'm busy at work now, stealing half a day. Usually three people get together less and leave more. After the age of 60, cook a nutritious meal for your family.
Third, our daughter has a lot to do to get married and start a career. If we need the help of our parents, we are duty-bound.
Finally, it is best for generations to travel under the same roof. If there were old people and young people at that time, that would be the winner in life. Don't take the old man out for a walk when you have money and leisure. I'm definitely not going out alone anyway. This is not a moral constraint, it is in my bones-I have experienced a lot and I value my family very much! My favorite trip is the combination of scenery and emotion!