Hehe, I'm quite experienced. After reading your account, in fact, the marriage customs in Ningdu are similar to yours. I take Ningdu people as an example. When Ningdu people marry their daughters, the man will give her a bride price of 20,000-50,000 yuan. Of course, it depends on her parents, or how the man talks to her parents. Of course, this bride price is not entirely owned by the woman's family, and the woman's family will use this bride price money to buy the wedding dowry. How much is the specific purchase? If you are good, you will buy it all, and the rest of the money will be returned to your daughter, even you will have to pay back. If it's not good, just buy a look. As for the house, it depends on whether the woman's family will demand the economic strength of the man's family. Of course, it is best to buy, and some don't buy or can't afford it (can't blame others). There are all kinds of meeting gifts, and there are many generous meeting gifts, which are very generous. His family won't show you that his family is stingy, hehe!