Fix a wedding date: easy to understand. Forget it. Both parties and their families sit down to fix the wedding date. Once determined, don't change it easily. Generally speaking, everyone likes to choose double dates, that is, the solar calendar of the lunar calendar is even. As far as Nanjing's current habits are concerned, in order to take care of guests, most of them choose Friday, Saturday and Sunday, including May Day and Eleventh Golden Week. The two sides * * * discuss the approximate number of invited guests and friends, not specific to the head, as long as the approximate number; Choose hotels according to the number of guests and their own economic situation; When choosing a hotel, you must look at it yourself, but you can't listen to their introduction: look at the variety, quality and price of the dishes, and look at the wedding banquet hall-after setting the table, you must leave enough access channels and make clear the additional services provided by the hotel, such as sending the wedding room, sending the cup tower and sending the guests to the sign-in book. Learn more about the hotel's regulations on wedding venue layout, some hotels have many taboos; To take wedding photos, you can find a large photo studio or a special photo studio. The level of studios like Nanjing is still good; Choosing a wedding company is the key to a successful wedding. About how to choose hotels and wedding companies, our newly opened photo studio will be introduced in a special post. I won't go into details here.
In addition, the renovation of the house should be completed before this; During this period, you can buy household appliances.
2. One month before marriage: buy wedding and wedding supplies; Determine wedding details and make wedding plans based on wedding experience.
The wedding supplies mentioned here mainly refer to some things used by the newlyweds themselves, including customized wedding dresses and diamond rings. , not mentioned here. Focus on wedding supplies. First of all, candy, cigarettes, liquor, red wine and drinks account for the bulk; When determining these things, the first thing we encounter is the problem of quantity and variety. Now most of the sweets are between 1.5~3.0 yuan, which looks good and the sugar itself is good. According to your own situation, generally speaking, it should be enough to issue about 100 copies according to the predetermined number of tables * 10; Some of our new friends are making wedding candy. If you need a friend, you can contact directly. Like cigarettes, foreign cigarettes are used less now. Generally, there are two or four packs of cigarettes per table, two packs of China and Su Yan, four packs of gold and two packs of Su Yan. There seems to be a lot of liquor in Wuliangchun/Jin Shiyuan (Dadi) now. According to one bottle per table, about 10 bottle is enough. Put another 20 bottles of red wine, dry red; Beverage, cola, sprite, juice collocation. It's okay to drink more. Too many people drink. If you can't use another one, you can use it yourself.
The second is to buy fireworks, happy characters, happy bags, balloons, ribbons, firecrackers and red envelopes. These things are sold in Jinqiao and Jinsheng. For fireworks, CSI does not encourage newcomers to sell chewing gum. It's better to sell paper, and it won't take long. It is about 40 centimeters long. The price is about 7.0~ 18.0 yuan, and the whole day usage is about 16, of which 4~8 are used in the daytime, and the rest are reserved for night use under the guidance of the master of ceremonies and cameramen. There are several kinds of happy characters, one is for home use, that is, pasting doors and windows and putting them in furniture, home appliances and bathrooms. In addition, there should be no fewer beds, and it is better to be bigger and more chic. Another happy child is attached to the wedding car, which is not easy to be too big to block the driver's sight and bring harm to the driver; The wedding bag is used to hold wedding candy, cigarettes and red envelopes for wedding staff (including drivers), not too much, and it is a gift; Balloon, just buy a bag, the price is about 10 yuan ~ 15 yuan, 200, plus a pump; Balloons are attached to the handrails of stairs and walkways with a roll of tape, and a pair of ribbons are hung in the bedroom; It is forbidden to set off firecrackers in the city, so don't say it. It doesn't matter how many places you can put them. Red envelopes should be divided into different sizes, because the face value inside is different, so they must be clearly divided. According to CSI's experience, 100 small red envelopes are generally enough, mainly used to meet relatives at the bride's house. In addition, for the children of guests, residential property, security, neighbors and friends who come to help, the best man and bridesmaid are of course indispensable.
During this time, there are many things. The key point is to communicate wedding feelings, see the master of ceremonies (we can also meet the cameraman in the new edition). Determine the form and general process of the wedding, and complete the wedding planning with their help; Clarify the wedding supervisor and assistant, and clarify their division of labor; Identify witnesses and invited guests, and send invitations to 15 days in advance; One week before the wedding, all necessary items should be in place.
The bride's makeup should also be clarified. You can try on makeup first and then decide when you are satisfied. At this time, the flower shop that tied the float should also be clear, and determine the pattern, variety, price and specific time.
At this stage, we should always keep in touch with the wedding company or its staff, and communicate as soon as possible if there is any change. Design the driving route on the wedding day.
3. The day before marriage
Print out the mobile phone numbers of all the staff on the next day, including the staff of the wedding company and their own wedding supervisors and assistants; The overall schedule for the next day; Our new studio will arrange a wedding order manager, who will be fully responsible for all wedding services involving my version; Clarify the supervisor's work, give all kinds of items needed for the next day to your wedding supervisor, and tell them the usage amount, usage occasion and usage method. In Nanjing, we have the custom of eating greenhouse wine the day before the wedding, so before the greenhouse wine starts, all these tasks should be arranged, and we must never talk about things on the wine table with problems. If conditions permit, the wedding director had better take the assistant in charge of directions, drive a van to take photos the next day, walk around the scheduled route, calculate the approximate time and survey the road conditions.
All the items used on the wedding day are in place, counted and kept by special personnel.
Contact the relevant personnel again to clarify the arrival time and meeting place of the cameraman, makeup artist, vehicle and the arrival time of the MC in the afternoon.
Best man and maid of honor can be in place.
If you have many relatives and friends from other places, you can book some rooms in the hotel.